my sis is mean she never helps me when i need her help she always gets me in trouble how do handle that without hurting her
2006-12-23 13:45:46 · 13 answers · asked by lover 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
stay away from her
2006-12-23 13:47:20 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I admire that you aren't trying to hurt her back. You should talk to her, get her to see how serious her actions hurts you. Let her know you want to be loved by her because she is your sister. I had the same problem for years with my sister, and we didn't come to much of an understanding until a month ago actually. She tried to bully me for years when she couldn't get her way. Then as I grow, she slowly started to realize I won't put up with her trying to always have the last word and bully me, especially when I'm right. She knows now that she can't beat me up or talk me down. Not that I would bully her back, because I wouldn't. I just put her in her place. We are both grown women, and she should be respectful to me as I am to her. Same thing with your sister, she'll see one day that you are not her enemy, and blood should always stick close, because you will always be blood.
Krazy Libra
2006-12-23 21:50:58 · answer #2 · answered by krazy_libra_from_ac 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't take what she says personally. Think of it as she is talking to the door. And listen objectively to what she is saying. Most of the time I have a hard time stopping my self from laughing out loud. Or as in Harry Potter, imagine her in some outrageous form or dress. This way you can ignore her meanness.
You could also take her aside some time and ask her is anything bothering her, she may just need someone to listen to her. Hope this helps. Oh, praying for your attitude towards your sister will help also.
2006-12-23 21:54:49 · answer #3 · answered by Lynn B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
would it be possible to speak with her at a time when everything was peaceful and tell her that the why she treats you sometimes hurts your feelings and that you want to have a solid relationship with her. Ask her to think about the kind of relationship she wants to have. Then talk about ways you could work together to become closer. Remind her she may someday need a kidney!!
2006-12-23 21:52:47 · answer #4 · answered by Mary M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best you mcan do is ignore her and she'll eventually come around. Hopefully you have some girlfriends that you can hang out with or have a good time with. Just enjoy your friends and your sister wil see that she needs you in the long run.
2006-12-23 21:48:39 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i have the same problem just dont talk to her ...me and my sis ignore eachother now so we wont kill eachother
2006-12-23 22:26:50 · answer #6 · answered by =] 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just remember that she is the one that is at a loss. You should feel sorry for her.
2006-12-23 21:47:47 · answer #7 · answered by jooliejools 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry about her feelings, she isn't worried about yours. Stay as faraway as possible from her.
2006-12-23 21:50:45 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
u dont just ler he be and then shell eventually get tired
2006-12-23 21:47:21 · answer #9 · answered by John T 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Can you speak to your parents about it?
2006-12-23 21:47:44 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just speak your mind and move on. don't let her think you are afraid of her.
2006-12-23 21:49:58 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋