2006-12-23 13:03:50 · 4 answers · asked by truelyhonest99 1 in Health ➔ Mental Health
because you dont have the real thing, maybe you need a boy friend to make love with.
2006-12-24 00:53:11 · answer #1 · answered by debbigeri 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
To self pleasure only fulfills the urge to have sex. Your sex drive has been satisfied, but the intimate feelings associated with making love and sharing the pleasure with someone is what brings euphoria. If it makes you feel sad, don't do it. Why would you want to do something that makes you sad? You should be able to tell it's not solving the underlining issue. Take control of your life instead of letting it control you.
2006-12-23 14:57:33 · answer #2 · answered by boogians 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think more often than not it's a feeling of guilt. But I really think it is a very normal thing. Upbringing has lots to do with it also, along with religion beliefs. There are many old wives tales out there about this subject so be careful. Sometimes if you have a good friend to talk to about it it helps.
Enjoy!
2006-12-23 14:41:48 · answer #3 · answered by Lisa C 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
masturbation sometimes make people sad because when they are done, sometimes they feel sad because they feel alone. sometimes it is guilt. don't be too hard on yourself, masturbation is very normal. it is a natural body function
2006-12-23 14:44:30 · answer #4 · answered by zeek 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋