she is overall a very nice girl. fun to be around and fun to talk to
everytime she smiles at me i cant think straight. and i really like her
the only problem?
im 14 and she is starting college
is it wrong to like her? im not looking for a sexual relationship
wat to do?
2006-12-23 13:00:31 · 6 answers · asked by Sir. ChatsAlot 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
OK, My advice is to wait! You should enjoy being young, besides what is the relationship going to be like in 5 years or so, when your going to college? The thing is she might have different things she wants out of her life right now that might be different than what you want, knowing your life is basically Just enjoying high school and hanging out. At least give her and yourself some time to evaluate what is life going to be like, Ask yourself: Are you worth waiting for? Are you going to be look for her is a couple years? Also, I will give you a tool to follow for this relationship or crush, to know if she is worth waiting for: By following my 5 biblical principles for finding your soul mate:
1. Does she love you for who you are (inside first than out)? The Bible says: *“Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. It is not rude, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. Love does not delight in evil, but rejoices with the truth.” 1 Corinthians 13:4-6
2. Does she honor you? Will she do things just to make you happy? Will she try some of the things you are interested in or maybe shares some of the same interests and hobbies? The Bible says:
* “Be devoted to one another in brotherly love. Honor one another above yourselves.” Romans 12:10
3. Cherishes your body, mind and soul? Doesn't go to far on these things until your ready? The Bible says: * “Your beauty should not come from outward adornment, such as braided hair and the wearing of gold jewelry and fine clothes. Instead, it should be that of your inner self, the unfading beauty of a gentle and quiet Spirit, which is of great worth in God’s sight.” 1 Peter 3:3-4
4. You trust her to the fullest? She is your best friend and you are hers? The Bible Says: * “ Love always protects, always trusts, always hopes always perseveres.” 1 Corinthians 13:7
5. You communicate well? She understands you like he could be your twin? The Bible says: * “ Do not let any unwholesome talk come out of your mouths, but only what is helpful, that it may benefit those who listen.” Ephesians 4:29
To Sum it up: Stick to 1. Love 2. Honor 3. Cherish 4. Trust 5. Communication and I promise if your relationship is based on these things you will know what its like to find true love! And Yes! I have used my principles myself and I am convinced I have found my soul mate! But to find her I also used these same principles to weed out my soul mate from the relationships that just didn't work. In addition, letting God and Jesus Christ lead your heart, mind, body and soul also aid in the weeding process. God Bless!
2006-12-23 13:22:45 · answer #1 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're 14 and she's like...18? Never gonna happen unfortunately.
2006-12-23 21:04:28 · answer #2 · answered by Greg S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let her have the time of her life. Find someone her age.
2006-12-23 21:04:13 · answer #3 · answered by M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its not wrong to like her, its not like u can stop liking her. its good you dont want her to like be ur gf or anything. just be okay with whatever relationship comes from it, even if she does consider you like her little brother or something.
2006-12-23 21:04:40 · answer #4 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not wrong for there to be a age difference. If you feel this way, let her know.
2006-12-23 21:03:52 · answer #5 · answered by yami_mani 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
go 4 a younger girl.....ur wut in 8th grade??
2006-12-23 21:07:41 · answer #6 · answered by ♥brasilian chick♥ 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋