People tend to loss the meaning of love and what it means to truely love someone. Have you forgotten the meaning?
2006-12-23 12:50:31 · 11 answers · asked by Tay 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
What is the true meaning of love and being in love?
this was my reply to another website but I thought I share it in here.
OK! first off all to know the meaning off love it's not easy as you think it is,
young love is certainly different and we learn by time ,many older people can really know about love by
experience and what they been thru in there lives,
Teens think they are in love and yes! they do feel that love, but! its not real its just a feeling of love,
if it was real love "then why did you not stick with the first girl or guy you loved?
and if you loved all your girls or guys why you keep changing throughout your life ?
even if you make love after you are 18 you mite feel so good and in that moment you say I love You,
mostly it is said cause you had a good time but you did not really mean it,
it is more proper to say I like you, that was real nice ,or baby your so great ,to someone you just been dating few days.
how can a teen talk about love ,I am sorry but wait till you experience the future then you know what love really means.
I have known many couples in love and many friends...,today they hardly say hello to each other why? few remain friends or in contact
for the sake of there kids,
but these people were in love, they were married, they were crazy for each other, but now its all gone,
very few survive the real love, and it's cause you have to say this is the only person I wane spend my hole life with, no matter what,
but it is a very serious decision,so don't get blind by rushing thinking your in love.
Commitment is not a joke ,if knowing the person few years will be much better and you must decide to close all doors for other temptation you mite face thru life,
cause if not you keep looking and looking for someone better , important is that both of you match in many things and you like each other characters.....,likes and dislikes, qualities,respect Ect are important other wise it won't last long.
To day the big rate off Divorce Separations comes from to much Stress,big loans on property ,betrayal,drinking problems,beatings,disrespect and so on ,"So where did the love go for them? "why did they look for someone else? or why did they divorce and go separate ways?
if you really love someone you have to use Respect, Fidelity, Honesty, in good and in bad times ,in sickness and in health,in poverty or richness ,love remain till death do us part, "that is the true meaning of love....,but still this will be told when you get married, but still they break up,
so I guess they did not really mean there love or the Vows they took,then I guess its all talk and bull,
ok many had no other options cause some cases of marriages turn in to evil so many divorce had to be done,
but most are not genuine cases, most are just cause they found another love or better man/women or richer, so why they married in the first place saying I love you,
don't you think that this is just talk for many people? or maybe a feeling of the moment..?
but sorry to say to day this world is so materialistic and most people think only about an easy life living the life of a queen or king,
then if an argue comes up many do not try solve the matter but go out to a bar get drunk mite even meet another girl or vies versa,
then they come up with lets get a Divorced and sue for money and rights, this is where it gets worse, and poor kids what they go thru and experience,
if I go on I will never end,so again "where is the Love?
but true love is no mater what goes wrong you be there for each other, try your best to keep it going,never give up, tell your partner what bothers you and not let it go cause other wise it will repeat it self,
if you have an argue try calm dawn and after think properly what could went wrong, "do not say whose fault it is" but try make each other understand what went wrong ,its not a matter who is right or wrong,its a matter of trying to understand each other,with out yelling or becoming aggressive,
first thing is to control your self , try find the right time to explain and by doing it the right way you be over it in no time,
never bring up your past arguments other wise your starting over again and you be looking for destroying your love.
and if you know it was your fault it would not hurt to say your sorry, but as I said its not a matter whose fault it was.
when we argue we feel angry and in the heat of the moment many things that hurt will be said some mite mean them some mite just wont to hurt you by getting back at you,so think before you say anything that mite break up your love .
"finding the right match! I believe if your partner is stubborn you must be calm person ,if your stubborn or hot headed and your partner is same as you then I suggest think it over before you go further,some people don't give up even if he/she is wrong so that's a big problem if you don't understand your partner well then it will not last long.
this is my opinion I am not an expert just a 41y old who passed thru hurt love divorce so I do not mean any harm I am just sharing my thoughts and what I have experience in life.every one has there opinion but do not rush think and think well.
love is beautiful when its meant to be, so be sure to think it over and over before you say the Love word to someone,never say if you don't really mean it,and its nice from time to time to say I love You to someone that you really love.
2006-12-28 10:02:07 · answer #1 · answered by noel_leon39 2 · 6⤊ 1⤋
Meaning of Love? It can be best described as a very strong feeling that is deep down in the pit of your stomach. You experience this feeling when you are around that special somebody or when you happen to be thinking about them. These strong feelings can be of affection, attraction and enjoyment. In a way, it is kind of like all three of these feelings rolled up into one emotion. Many people feel wonderful when they experience this. Once you understand the Meaning of Love then you can truly harness its powe
2015-01-26 05:51:38 · answer #2 · answered by Robertson 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I believe true love is when you can trust someone with all your heart, and you know deep inside that person was meant for you. If you love someone no matter what they do you will always love them. You would never want that kiss to end, you would want to hold him or her and never let go. when you're in love you don't say death will do us part you say death will never do us part. If you love someone then thinking of another girl or boy would never cross your mind. Love is something god gave to you as a gift and you should cherish it forever.
2006-12-23 12:58:59 · answer #3 · answered by ~*.::.Baby Love.::.*~ 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
you never lose the meaning,if you do then it wasnt love,but infatuation,wanting to be in love and being in love are two different things,love trancends the physical feelings between two people,even when things get tough,love is and can never be a 50/50 proposition its always out of balance.True love comes with other things though,devotion and an incredible desire to be able sacrifice for the happiness of love,whether its with your mate,children,friends etc.love is sacrifice,there is no happily ever after,there is only the ability to know that life would be bleak without the ones you love
2006-12-23 13:08:06 · answer #4 · answered by stygianwolfe 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The true meaning of love is bullsh*t. It doesn't exist. It is reserved for those you can tolerate the best and annoy you the least.
2006-12-23 12:56:15 · answer #5 · answered by intewonfan 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Loving someone is growing old together and still holding hands when walking down the street.
Loving someone is taking care of them when they're ill, even if it does gross you out.
Loving someone is giving them a hug. Period.
2006-12-23 12:58:01 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Love is an emotion we feel for someone despite and because of all of their faults. It is true and unending even through in death.
2006-12-23 12:55:15 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
Love is giving that love that is in your heart to someone else.
2006-12-23 12:58:21 · answer #8 · answered by JoJoBa 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Love is when you put someone else's needs before yours, when you trust them, stay with them when they need you.
2014-04-14 14:10:20 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
love is love. I love to love..she is my love
2015-07-18 16:40:41 · answer #10 · answered by Felicia 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋