He keeps looking at other hot skinny girls at the mall what should i do?
2006-12-23 12:45:02 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
My suggestion to you is to keep in mind that he's not your husband. It's human nature to look dear and nothing is wrong with that. The issue is when looking turns into touching and at this point seems though he hasn't done that.
Don't place to much on this what will end up happending is you'll cause this relationship to break. Why? because he will think your obsessing and that's very unattractive.
If your insecure about yourself then I suggest you update your look. Do something for you.. new hair color, new outfit something to lift you.
If he didn't want to be with you and wanted to be with whomever he was looking at I am sure he would have just left you standing at the mall and chatted up with this hot skinny girl.
Sounds like your very young ... You've so much to learn and there is no better time than now. If your a jealous girl/lady you'll have some real issues as an adult.
Work your stuff hun dont worry about other chics and what they look like and if your man is looking at them.. If you'll stop paying attention to such tiny issues... you'll take note that some hot guys are checking you out!!
Good luck & happy holidays
2006-12-23 13:00:02 · answer #1 · answered by ssgtmommy01 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Uhmm, guys will always look at hot skinny girls, unless they are checking out the hot skinny guys, but looking isn't really a problem. All out staring well that is a bit much.
2006-12-23 12:48:53 · answer #2 · answered by Brian 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Men eyes rove... they can't help it. As long as he's not acting on his roving eyes you should be okay. Be confident with yourself. He's with your right now right? And who cares if they are skinny. Skinny girls have nothing to hold on to. lol! Don't be insecure. Be confident with yourself. If you feel uncomfortable with his roving eye then say something to him. If it doesn't change then you need to lose him... especially if it doesn't make you feel good about yourself. There are so many other guys out there that will be so into you that any skinny girl walking by wouldn't even make them flinch! Trust me!
But first, find some confidence in yourself. He's with you. He's walking with you. He's not with them. That she be enough in itself. If not... then talk to him. Tell him that next time you catch him looking at some skinny twit while walking in the mall with him you'll pull his eye socket out. Then... he'll only have one eye to look at them with. Thus, he'll have single vision and those girls from his eye sight point a view will look chunky! Hee-hee!
Have trust and confidence in yourself girlfriend. Don't let his roving eye minimize anything about YOU!
Hope this helps and have a merry christmas!
2006-12-23 12:54:45 · answer #3 · answered by Ocean 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guys can't help it. They look. That doesn't mean he is going to go for it. Girls have to stop making a big deal out of it! Try checking out the guys around you too and see if he even notices. If he does then you can bring up what he does. Otherwise, leave it alone. Unless he is actually going up to all the girls he looks at, then, he is not serious about you.
2006-12-23 12:48:27 · answer #4 · answered by mich 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweetie, a large amount of guys stare at other girls butt, boobs, body, w/e! He's not going to leave you for another girl..he just likes to look at them. And if you feel he's going to leave you, maybe you should start questioning your relationship. Possibly, you think the relationship is going to end. Is there anything lacking?
2006-12-23 12:49:56 · answer #5 · answered by Christine S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He can no longer stay with out you, and yet he breaks up with you for yet another woman? This guy needs his cake and to consume it too, and you may enable him understand that it is not ok! the way he sees it, he gets a clean "greater useful" woman on an identical time as nevertheless with the flexibility to maintain his maximum suitable pal in his existence (you). tell a number of your girlfriends approximately this, and ask them to thrill shop you occupied for awhile, bypass to video clips, have sleepovers, and do in basic terms somewhat girly issues. you ought to get a makeover, concentration on college paintings, something besides desirous to get decrease back mutually with this obtrusive loser.
2016-10-18 22:31:43 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stay away from the Mall.
2006-12-23 12:47:33 · answer #7 · answered by Joe Prosnick 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Start looking at other guys or spark up conversation with some hot guy... Or you could tell him it bothers you... And if he still does it then either brake up with him because you're to insecure or just let it go.....
2006-12-23 12:48:19 · answer #8 · answered by sweet LeShae 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just accept the fact you aren't good enough for him and find some fat loser who feels so lucky to have a girlfriend he would never think of losing you.
2006-12-23 12:48:25 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
slap him and say 'you better not look at other girls or this relationship is going to end' and you look at him with a anger face
2006-12-23 12:48:38 · answer #10 · answered by pinay 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋