2006-12-23 12:26:58 · 22 answers · asked by Jai LaShay 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
because love isnt easy- and a relationship takes WORK and if everyone got along with one another ALL THE TIME< theyll be bored and disinterested and cheat. Relationships are give and take and sometimes dont see eye to eye- its the struggle that reminds us that its the relationship we WANT, not being alone. We dont argue with ourselves.
2006-12-23 12:30:27 · answer #1 · answered by . S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
because they have nothing important to argue about. The little things fill in for the lack of importance to living. It is also an excuse to break up a relationship, instead of the real truth which needs to be explored. It's the lazy way to get out of a relationship that has gotten boring. Just an excuse Thats all
2006-12-23 20:35:09 · answer #2 · answered by reddraggonn 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Usually fights aren't about the topic of argument. If a couple is fighting about things like which one forgot to empty the dishwasher, which one forgot to pay the phone bill, etc. then it's actually about the relationship. They're trying to get a better handle on the state of the relationship, not just bicker about dishes and bills.
2006-12-23 20:31:06 · answer #3 · answered by obligatorycleverusername 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lota times it is stubornness and stupidity that drives arguing. Ego plays a big part too, no one wants to lose an arguement and so the dagger etes and hot tongue ensues. Pity, eh? And just think, most are over trivial things that everyone forgets about.
2006-12-23 20:30:52 · answer #4 · answered by J.M.C 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it's only natarul to to spat with the one you love. Couples who don't argue have not heat between them. There is no way that two individual people could agree on everything.
2006-12-23 20:33:35 · answer #5 · answered by chris99 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
most couples argue alot because that the way learn to show their love (it odd but true), some people seem to think that when couples dont argue they tend to not care as much as people who argue and sometimes thats true
2006-12-23 20:32:47 · answer #6 · answered by Sean 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
agreeing with someone all the time IS hard. I am stubburn and my other half is pig headed. But the times that we both use our hearts it still can make up for all the silly times. We are going in the same direction and when we see we are both stressed we know that we are there for each other
2006-12-23 20:40:10 · answer #7 · answered by remy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Couples usually fight about little things before they turn out bigger and worst. My parents do the same thing. Answer= they argue about little things before they turn out worst and get into much bigger trouble. So,they time this perfectly.
2006-12-23 20:33:48 · answer #8 · answered by nococaine 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have learned to "pick my battles". Today is my 11th anniversary to my husband. He is NOT the easiest person to get along with...but then again, neither am I. So, I have learned that I keep my mouth shut some of the time, stand my ground when I need to, and let him know I love him every day.
2006-12-23 20:32:15 · answer #9 · answered by Marsha P 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Sweetheart, it is all about making boundries, kind of like war between sexes. Cupcakes, if your little wars continue and escalate, then you are with the wrong guy honey. Sweety, move on to someone more like you.
2006-12-23 20:30:16 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋