I have a crush on my friend and i gave into peer pressure by confessin my true feelings to her. The thing is that she claims to have an online bf who she met in an online game and she ahs never seen him in person. Shes completely obssesed bout this kid in the U.S and shes rejected 3 guys along wit me for this guy as she claims to 'love' him. Anyways, ever since i told her shes been actin weird and shes also been ignorin me a lil bit. I was thinkin of tellin everyone that im over her so that things return to normal again. Does it sound like a good idea? coz i havent gotten over her yet, im just thinkin of lyin to set things straight again.
2006-12-23 12:06:58 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Im in grade 12, shes in grade 11. We live in Canada by the way.
2006-12-23 12:07:17 · update #1
No don't do that just yet, she'll probably realise that this guy is really a pedophile, and moves on with her life and then things will probably go well with you. It will probably will take a while, but you don't have to give up just yet....
Hey I have an idea, why not just get someone to tell her parents about it (leave an anonymous note or something) , I'm sure they won't be too pleased..... it will work out in her favor anyways.. this guy could be dangerous.
2006-12-23 12:12:53 · answer #1 · answered by Other sheep 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She seems to be obsessed with this young man if he is a young man, one never knows about the Internet. i would just stop giving her so much attention and move on. there are plenty of girls even in Canada, find someone else to give your time and attention to. besides with her ideas of this on line love relationship she thinks she has going on, she may have more issues than you really want to deal with. God bless****
2006-12-23 12:10:56 · answer #2 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I tried to help with this one before--I'll try again!! Maybe if you try your plan it'll work--what can it hurt? Just be her friend and see what happens--she's obviously inot this guy for now and until she's over him--I'm sorry--there's not a whole lot you ot anyone else can do. Good luck with all you can do.
2006-12-23 12:11:06 · answer #3 · answered by smeezleme 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nah not really a good idea just relax dont stress shes acting strange because of your feeling for her but if u relax she will get over the guy on internet and probably ull be there and she will come to you
2006-12-23 12:12:19 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be above board. Sit down w her eye to eye. Tell her u think she's lying. Tell her that you are attracted to her. Tell her you hope to stay friends. Get up walk away. Keep it short and sweet.No lies. no drama. you've saved yourself and your respect. Keep your head up even though it may kill you. Her jaw will hit the floor....
2006-12-23 12:12:12 · answer #5 · answered by A Mitzvah 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't say ur over her!!!
try to get her to realize the reality of her online boyfriend cuz that isn't going ANYWHERE!!!!!
ummmmmm yea she's being wierd cuz she probly likes you but doesn't believe that u like her!!!! show her that u reeli wud be commited to her and she'll be yours!
~Jaz
2006-12-23 12:10:34 · answer #6 · answered by Jaz J 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah that's OK. They won't believe you, but they'll understand.
2006-12-23 12:11:24 · answer #7 · answered by sparetom 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
shes a *****, the guy is prolly a rapist, get the HELL over her
2006-12-23 12:09:17 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋