im not sure how much i can take this but my bf ex is sending me mental she keeps adding me on myspace at school she asking why did i block her on msn and coz the only way to town is pass her house she tell my bf who im going town with and wat time she even told him i was cheating on him coz me and my mate was helping my ex home as he was drunk so he had one arm round me and the other round my mate. ive asked my bf to ask her to stay out my life but she wont even though he asked about 5 times now.
what should i do i dont wanna fight her or do anything nasty as my bf might get a bit pissed off as he worked so hard to be friendly to my exs and wants me to do the same
2006-12-23 11:55:27 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i do igorn her i dont even give her eye contact at school but she carries on
2006-12-23 12:02:31 · update #1
Sweetheart, just bring up your new man in your life or bring him along when ever the ex shows up, it is that simple cupcakes.
2006-12-23 11:58:25 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Seems like at this point, you can't do a whole lot except don't ever dignify her accusations with a response. Just keep your mouth shut, and talk to your boyfriend and let him know how you have decided to handle it. If she says things to you and you have to be friendly, change the subject and act like you didn't even hear the stuff she is accusing you of. Eventually, you can hope she would get tired of a battle she can't win.
2006-12-23 19:59:44 · answer #2 · answered by donnabellekc 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No communicating.
Don't listen, block her on msn. Try to block her from adding you on myspace anywhere.
Don't respond, act like she doesn't exist.
She is doing this because she knows you will take the bait and she really wants her ex-boyfriend.
You're the fool to give her any attention.
IGNORE, IGNORE, IGNORE!!!
2006-12-23 20:00:51 · answer #3 · answered by SweetBrunette 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your boyfriend still has a comfortable connection with his ex. seems like he has her around like insurance and is playing it off with you like he is just friends with her. so what he made nice with your ex bf's when he did that, naturally he is going to expect you to accept her. its just a front. nobody is that close to an ex unless there are benefits attached to it. she still wants him and he is not pushing her away. instead of asking her to leave you alone why doesnt he show her that he wants to be left alone, because action speaks louder than words.
2006-12-23 20:18:10 · answer #4 · answered by prettylass2007 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just avoid her and eventually she will get over it. She keeps lying on you then one must tell her to stop causing problems. Perhaps when you open up to her she will realize and quit.
2006-12-23 20:02:24 · answer #5 · answered by JoJoBa 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
shes just leulose u have him i have the same problem but yeah so just tell your bf to ignore anyhting she says and just relax if he really loves u he will not let it get to him
2006-12-23 19:59:43 · answer #6 · answered by puertorican_jary 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Report her to someone
2006-12-23 19:58:30 · answer #7 · answered by luv_dec21 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like she is not over him...It is his ex, let him handle it...........
2006-12-23 19:58:54 · answer #8 · answered by Brenda Soooooooooooooooooooooooo 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋