Alright me and this guy at school were doing pretty good....we talked alot..he ate lunch toghther....we met during classes....he said he liked me and he knew i liked him....well now his best friend (a girl) is back in town and he seems to be falling for her....how do i win him back????
2006-12-23 11:53:59 · 31 answers · asked by Dance♥ 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You never had him in the first place so there is no winning"back". You have just been bumped out of the picture, that's all. Go look elsewhere.
2006-12-23 11:56:16 · answer #1 · answered by Kokopelli 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
First of all feel good about yourself, after all he likes you
and he even told you. You can win him back without a doubt ! He has spent alot of time with you and that means he likes you alot, so
just be nice to him but let him think that you are keeping busy since he is busy with his Friend right now. Give him something to worry about in the mean time----look your best and let him think you are having a great time for now. When this girl leaves again he'll be looking for you and wondering if you found someone else.
In the mean time be very nice to him but give him a challenge.
Let him know you like him but that you can still have fun without him. The secret is to not appear "needy" at all. You can let him know that you like him but you can also let him know that other guys like you too!!! Best of Luck and stay cool!
2006-12-23 20:06:09 · answer #2 · answered by lorrina b 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't...not permentatly. You could act like you dont see him and play hard to get..but that doesnt work 4 everyone. What it boils down to is ...You cant make someone care. like, or love you. Look elsewhere and if he does want to be with..be careful. If its not meant to be...then walk away no matter how hard it is...your heart may already be broken but it will be alot more broken if you continue this for long time. Trust me I know...Im still in love with my ex boyfriend that hasnt loved me for 3 yrs now. It's alot easier to deal with now..but you should have seem me 2 yrs ago. I never thought that kind of heart break could be possible.
2006-12-23 20:07:31 · answer #3 · answered by shaylea29 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you lost him? Does he treat you differently than he did before his other friend came back in town? Or is he just sharing his time with you both? You can have more than one friend, you know.
I'm not sure what age you are or what kind of friendship we are talking about. If we are talking boyfriend-girlfriend as in romantic, then you really don't want to share his time in that respect.
What do you do...how about nothing different than you were doing before...just be yourself and PLEASE don't put any pressure on him. That is a killer.
There is a saying, if you love something, let it go. If it comes back to you, then you were meant to have it.
Hope that helps. Good luck honey!
2006-12-23 20:03:50 · answer #4 · answered by SUSAN K 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't fall into ur own illusions, they are just best friends. If u know that he loves you, why would u sink in jealousy. Maybe he wants to be with her because they have not been together a long while so they are just gosssiping stuff. Confess ur love to him, normally once someone who confesses its love may make the other person fall in love. If he refuses, remember there are a lot of fish in the sea...
2006-12-23 20:01:41 · answer #5 · answered by JMCG 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How do you "win" him back?
1.) Did you really "have" him in the first place?
2.) Do you really want to compete for a boys attention?
A relationship is not a win or loose game. If this relationship
is going to happen it will.
3.) Just sit tight, be yourself ,watch and learn.
If he is yours, he will be back.( But has he really left?)
****Trust me, do not do anything to compromise yourself.****
4.) In the mean time do something for YOU!
Get a new hair do or update your wardrobe.
!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Be happy with YOU first !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2006-12-23 20:01:38 · answer #6 · answered by lill 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Play it cool, and don't show your jealousy. If he is interested he will be back and if not, then he was not worth it and you kept your dignity.
Or tell him that you like him but are unsure how to deal with his feelings for his friend. (Honesty is usually the best policy)
2006-12-23 19:58:01 · answer #7 · answered by Katie 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Well Honey: I would go up to him and ask him what's going on. Ask him, not us, why are you doing this? Maybe a show of affection will stun him and he will think about what's going on.
Tell him how much you like (love) him and you'd like to see more of him, see what happens. Communications is what makes the world go 'round.
2006-12-23 19:58:59 · answer #8 · answered by cowboydoc 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Just call or find him alone, and tell him you miss him. That things don't seem the same since she is back..and you miss that. His reaction will tell you whether you can win him back or not. Good luck.
2006-12-23 19:56:14 · answer #9 · answered by donnabellekc 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
just be yourself, if he finds that he's interested in her, so be it, be happy for him, as hard as it may seem.
Don't act any different or jealous, just let things take its course.
If not theres plenty of other fish in the sea.
2006-12-23 19:59:27 · answer #10 · answered by Jenny** 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋