2006-12-23 11:45:39 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You take a break from love, and work on your spelling. :-))
2006-12-23 11:48:09 · answer #1 · answered by Joe Prosnick 5 · 0⤊ 2⤋
First, I have to ask, how does this some1 feel about you? You did not mention that part, which makes me wonder if three persons feelings are at stake. Working with the info you gave, I would say, talk to your bf and tell him how you feel if this new guy loves you two ant the two of you want to be together. If the new guy does not feel the same and you still want to pursue the relationship, still tell your bf. He has the right to know. If you are still unsure about what to do, think about this: If you were in the same position as your bf, would you want him to tell you he's in love with someone else so you both can move on and be happy elsewhere? All is not fair in love; sometimes it hurts, but you heal, learn and grow.
2006-12-23 12:11:29 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I have to say that, that is a very shady and fucced up move. Why are you chillin with a man you don't love but have the one you love on the side? Honestly, your love ain't pure and I'm tired of people in general throwin around love likes it's some sort of disease you catch. The man you don't love should know your motives and know that your love with him, what the hell you keepin him around for? Is he a back up plan? Also you deceiving the man whom you supposedly love..which you don't, cause love does not consist of shady criteria. And when you love somebody then nothing else around you matters, except being with them and ONLY them. Get it together shorty!Know who you are as a woman, and follow the guideline of being a real, true lady..for with out that you fall victim to not ever being a man's most valuable resource..which is you...the black woman!
-Shalom
2006-12-24 07:50:32 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Then dont blow a tremendous friendship, it can be a pity to lose a chum - they're those there for you each time relationships bypass incorrect. you besides mght cant make her fall out of affection with one person and in love with you, that would spell disaster to something. friends are greater precious and durable than relationships, so be there for her as a maximum suitable mate.
2016-10-18 22:29:01 · answer #4 · answered by woodworth 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You cant really do anything about love but you can follow it. If your boyfriend is really in love with you..you have to talk to him and also talk to the person you are in love with and see if they love you as much as you love them. You never know when love is going to pop in your head. But, you have to know what love is. Make sure it is not a false alarm.
2006-12-23 11:51:55 · answer #5 · answered by Rachel N 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ugh. I've been here. Hun, stay wit your boy. He loves you and you love him too. You just crushin on another guy. It happens. But you know your boy is the only that can truly make you happy.
2006-12-23 11:48:38 · answer #6 · answered by luv_dec21 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to let your boyfriend know that you dont feel like he does, and you need to stay away from other relationships until you are really ready to give your heart to someone else. Good luck
2006-12-23 11:49:11 · answer #7 · answered by Summer 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First off I just have to ask since when did it become acceptable not to spell or "speak" as it were correctly become acceptable.
My advice to you is. If you do not love your boyfriend then end it and move on dont cause him more heart ache or yourself. However never leave the one you love for the one you like because they may not like you back.
2006-12-23 11:49:34 · answer #8 · answered by texas_angel_wattitude 6 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Well, if you truly love someone else, then you'll have to break up with your current boyfriend before pursuing this other person.
2006-12-23 11:53:03 · answer #9 · answered by Greg S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Im young but I can tell you somthing i got from my sister you should follwo your heart and go with the boy you love thats what my sister did and now she has1 kid and lives in califirnia.
2006-12-23 11:51:04 · answer #10 · answered by newcalls 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Find stop dating the "boyfriend" who you don't love, and see if you can date the one that you do love...
2006-12-23 11:50:44 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋