I invited her FIRST to my house for XMAS so we could spend it TOGETHER, but she accepted her FRIEND'S invitation to some other place, probably a party. And she told me in a very c0cky way "I have gotten LOTS of invitations *laugh* I have so many places to go."
I'm supposed to spend New Year with her and now I'm DEFINITELY not going to.
*****Please Answer, Questions: Should I be mad?
Should I tell her that I'm upset?
2006-12-23 11:43:08 · 24 answers · asked by Tommy_Turrican 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You shouldn't be mad, but upset. It all depends on how long you two have been a couple, your age, and your commitment level.
And yes tell her, but do so in away you don't accuse her of being rude. Like, "I invited you to my place, and you accept another invitation after, that hurt my feelings"
And spend New Years with her....Two wrongs don't make a right.
2006-12-23 11:47:29 · answer #1 · answered by Katie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The girl sounds self centred, lots of invites, wants only something for herself, and you seem to be on the low end of favorites.
I would say, cya around, maybe we will bump into one another somewhere, but I would get on with it and go spend New Year with friends or famiy, someone who will actually want you around, not someone who will be a player
2006-12-23 19:49:29 · answer #2 · answered by Angela W 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Never let them see you sweat, this is why men have instituted "Non-Dating Season" who left you out of the loop? You simply don't date anyone between Thanksgiving and New Years Eve... Why go to a NYE party with a woman who obviously wants to torment you? Don't be a fool boy....
2006-12-23 19:47:47 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Draw the line. Dump the ho. You NEVER sit at home when a woman goes partying unless its cool with you in the first place. She thinks she has you wrapped around her finger and can do whatever she wants. Time to cut her loose.
2006-12-23 19:46:48 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I sounds like she feels smothered and is pushing back. Give her some space and don't cancel your New Year's plan. The best thing you can do is talk with her. Tell her how you feel, ask her how she feels about "us" and the direction "we" are heading in "our" relationship... etc.
Never give a ultimatum or tell her you want her to change.
2006-12-23 19:53:27 · answer #5 · answered by Satchmo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YES you should tell her you are upset! That was not very considerate of her at all! She should WANT to spen Christmas with you. This is definetly a bumb along the road.
2006-12-23 19:47:13 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her you are upset, you have a right to be, but maybe you shouldn't be quite so angry, she may have a good reason, and if she doesn't... well... um, forgive her and give her another chance, if she does it again and has no good reason, that is when you get really angry, give her a break, no matter how close you are to her there are thoughts and emotions you will never know and they may be very important to her
2006-12-23 19:47:28 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her that you were looking forward to spending Christmas with her, and deeply hurt by her attitude about spending the day with you.
2006-12-23 19:46:57 · answer #8 · answered by Joe Prosnick 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would be mad. I would tell her and see what her reaction is. If she is kocky again then I would be right back and I definatly would not spend New Years with her.
2006-12-23 19:48:06 · answer #9 · answered by jwkramer54 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like your already mad and yes you have every right to be but remeber your still young and many more could come your way but yes tell her your upset and if she doesnt repect your feelingd dump her hope this helps
2006-12-23 19:46:45 · answer #10 · answered by mommyofanangel06 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋