does that mean he gets too sleep with all of them and enjoy it?
If this is true, I want to be Muslim becasue being white not only do you get cheated on more frequently, they also take half of everything you own.
2006-12-23 11:36:34 · 18 answers · asked by mike 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
U have no Idea about Islam
2006-12-23 11:39:00 · answer #1 · answered by pkstn pride 1 · 1⤊ 4⤋
You don't need to be a Muslim if you are wealthy. Just don't get married with any woman you want. Make a pre-nup agreement if you intend to get married then silently find a concubine.
As a Muslim you have to be giving them equal attention in everything meaning they do not just get 50% of your wealth but 100% of what you have should equally be distributed including your health. If you have too much strength to supply their needs go on but being cheated do not neccessarily fall on the whites only. To cheat is to lie and most of the time the whites are not that good at telling lies.
2006-12-23 11:49:56 · answer #2 · answered by Rallie Florencio C 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok what you need to do is get this straight....yes its true a muslim man can marry 3 women at once...BUT each one has to know about the other, each one has to be ok with it ( the fact that you are marrying ), and they have to accept her BEFORE you marry her. not alot of men do that these days. and usually the main reason they marry more than one is b/c the first one is either sick, cannot bare children, and so on. he cant just say oh honey i got married today wanna meet her? no it doesnt work that way. and what alot of men have problems with is that HE MUST TREAT EACH ONE THE SAME. he cannot give one more attention then the other, he cannot give one an expensive gift and not the other...no. and he must live with each one. theres some ppl who buy apt. or houses nxt dr to each other and puts one in ea. house.
p.s. i sry u have troubles and think that b/c ur white u get cheated on and stuff, but u cant just become a muslim so u can have 3 women at once...you'd be a true idiot to do that. if one is to think that thats all there is to life in becoming a muslim.....god help you
2006-12-23 11:46:06 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
do not be decieved by lust...
islam says you can have four wives as long as you treat them equally...how may i ask is that possible?
by far it is the most repulsive sexist idea i have heard of in a religion...forgive me but this is my opinion not being imposed on anyone but simply being expressed...it is as if you might come in the open and say human sacrifice is acceptable or child marriage is acceptable or prostitution is acceptable...i place this in the same category and who after all wrote the holy book...who other than a man who wanted to subjugate and control women...
do not be decieved by the outward apearance of religion...in subtle ways it entices you...it happened to me too and that point in my life i remember as a bad dream i never want to dream again because it haas brought me so far from it...why do women allow men to control them? i feel it is more of a woman's fault then the man's? like if they all refused to wear a hijab what will they do kill every woman? well sorry guys if you do that your entire lineage will discontinue and not to mention those sickly temptations you get when seeing a woman's body will never be fulfilled (perhaps the only good that will come of it is you may suffer never seeing the body of another woman and turning it into your prey)
trust me this is all bogus nonsense...you will be even more miserable if you pursue this any more...
dont mistake me as a racist but anything that is derogatory to women i will speak against without hesitation...men will continue being bastards regardless of which religion you affiliate yourself with and unless you want to be treated like an object yourself rather than losing some of your objects, this is the last place you want to go. i am truly concerned for you dear and that is why i am telling you this...live your life as a free freethinking independent powerful woman which is befitting for your gender not what men tell you you should be in the religions which those of their gender have dictated.
2006-12-25 12:22:45 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most likely he won't be sleeping with them all in the same bed.
Sorry to disappoint you. They keep taking from you? That only means that you must heighten you game strategy.
Understand whether you like it or not life is a game. Those who play it well always win.
Never think that wealthy Muslim or Arab man won't play a game with you; it happens.
2006-12-23 13:21:11 · answer #5 · answered by Laela (Layla) 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
All the Muslim men are allowed to marry more than 3 wives....not just the wealthier Muslim men.
yes that's mean he gets to sleep with all of them and enjoy it...
but do you really want to change you religion(the religion of peace) to Islam religion, just to enjoy............?
2006-12-23 11:43:22 · answer #6 · answered by Gardenia 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
wait a minute...
Muslim men are allowed to marry more then one wife...if and only if the woman can not complete daily tasks..example..if a Muslim man marries a woman and she can't cook then he is allowed to marry another woman who can cook. but this doesn't happen in America..if you're planning to convert for that reason i would re-evaluate your morals and decide what is truly right for you..if girls keep cheating on you..maybe you should be a little more cautious on who you date..otherwise..slap a hoe.
2006-12-23 11:48:55 · answer #7 · answered by Patty♥ 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
yes it is allowed but that was a different time period when women could not support themselves without men and widows had no homes so there were men who would marry them to give them homes. also, if you have more than one wife, you have to treat them equally.
what is a one-day marriage? i have never heard about that before. in islam divorce is only allowed under extreme circumstances when there is no way to fix the problems.
2006-12-23 11:42:25 · answer #8 · answered by E.T.01 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
you know if you become muslim theres alot of things you have to do,like pray 5 times,and also i have a friend who became christian from being a muslim and almost got shot twice
2006-12-23 11:50:27 · answer #9 · answered by Jaden B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
THERE IS NO SUCH THING AS ONE-DAY MARRIAGE...WHAT THE HELL IS THAT ANYWAY...??? POLIGAMY IS ALLOWED NOT FOR MERE ENJOYMENT BUT TO ENSURE THAT THESE WIDOWS AND SINGLE POOR WOMEN ARE PROTECTED...! BESIDES IT HELPS THESE WOMEN TO GET KIDS AND CONTINUE THE FAMILY NAME...THESE KIDS WILL HAVE BOTH PARENTS AS OPPOSE TO HAVING KIDS WITHOUT BEING MARRIED WHICH DOESNT ENSURE THAT BOTH PARENTS WILL BE RESPONSIBLE...
PROPHET MOHAMMAD HIMSELF HAD A FEW WIVES BUT ONLY BECAUSE AT THAT TIME SINGLES AND WIDOWS WERE TERRIBLY OPPRESSED AND DISCRIMINATED AGAINST...
THERE ARE SO MANY RULES TO ABIDE IF UR A GOING POLIGAMY e.g YOU HAVE TO GET ALL THE OTHER WIVES' AGREEMENT, YOU HAVE TO BE FAIR TO ALL, IT'S NOT MEANT FOR ENJOYMENT!
2006-12-23 11:58:11 · answer #10 · answered by Perfection Personified 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
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Its WIVES, not girlfriends. No he cant enjoy it.
anyway, consider you have to obey laws too. what country are you planning on going to?
Also, it just wont work, declaring yourself Muslim and going to get 3 wives. Trust me on it. No, I do not have any experience, but trust me.
2006-12-23 11:39:53 · answer #11 · answered by imnottellingmyname 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋