2006-12-23 11:23:49 · 27 answers · asked by Jacey A 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Toddler & Preschooler
I think it is pretty simple, don't force the issue. Just wrap up the gifts and tell the child they are from you. Santa can be a huge disappointment for kids. I think you are fortunate to have a kid who isn't hanging by their toes waiting for "Santa" to do something magical at your house.
Have a wonderful Christmas with your precious child.
2006-12-23 11:27:18 · answer #1 · answered by Tatochka 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would sit him or her down with cookies and milk and tell the story of the real santa and the nativity story (if you believe in the Lord). Explain to your child why people give each other presents during the Christmas season. I am sure there are some good books out there about these subjects. Yes there was once a real Santa. Your child seems to be very smart. Please don't lie to your child. (My mother said that is what she would do but as a professional in Early Childhood Education and Development I strongly disagree.)
2006-12-23 19:54:38 · answer #2 · answered by Laura L. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your 5 year old doesn't believe in Santa, it not doing any one any harm. Did she learn it from a classmate or a relative? My niece (6 yrs old) was told there wasn't a Santa but our kids believe in him. Just a little extra magic for the holiday season. As our kids get older we will of course tell them there isn't one, but as for now it's good. It is a little sad but just remember the real reason for Christmas , is the Lord Jesus Christ. God Bless.
2006-12-23 20:39:58 · answer #3 · answered by Alicia 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My older kids don't believe in Santa, but Santa comes to the house anyway....make some cool Christmas traditions and let her look forward to them.
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2006-12-23 20:54:51 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like you have a very logical probing mind in that child. She will likely be a kind of serious kid and adult, but I am sure she is wonderful and will make you proud! Way to go little thinker!
Peace!
PS - I tell my kids that Santa represents the spirit of love and giving, and it is that spirit that makes it's way down our chimneys each year. It might be easier for her to believe in the ideals that santa represents rather than the guy who sneaks into the house on christmas eve. xoxo!
2006-12-23 20:58:58 · answer #5 · answered by carole 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am 39 and I beleive in Santa- Saint Nicholas. He brings warmth to my hart each and every Christmas Season. I watch my children laugh and play. They are 5 and 10 and still beleive and if I do my explaining right,, they will always beleive, just Like me. Try to talk with him and tell him paart truths and mix in a little of the myth, Because Yes Jacey, There is a Santa Clause. Merry Christmas, Billy Sweeney
2006-12-23 19:29:38 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
The best way to handle this in my point of view is to tell the truth. Say that Santa Clause is really mommy and daddy but that this is about the meaning of Christmas. Sharing love and togetherness. Thinking of others.
2006-12-23 19:27:27 · answer #7 · answered by Justme 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
That's kind of a bummer; it's nice to have that magical excitement for a few years when the kids are young. However, don't try to trick your child into believing anymore, since you'll only have to tell him or her the truth in a few years anyway. Please emphasize how important it is not to spread the word to other kids, though. It would be sad for your child to ruin everyone else's Christmas magic at that age.
2006-12-23 21:22:24 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Doesn't matter. Look at it this way: At least you won't have to make more cookies.
No, lol, I'm kidding.
If your child doesn't believe in Santa, it's okay.
Just buy him a present and say it's from you.
2006-12-23 19:32:23 · answer #9 · answered by miss_shirinie526 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
tell them that santa represents the magic of christmas and there really was a st. nick... look it up on the net....... And even though he doesn't exist, the magic is still in our hearts and mommy and daddy are sharing the magic with you, and someday you will share that with your kids.... ( you might save the last part for a few years... :) )
2006-12-23 19:30:51 · answer #10 · answered by Mommy of 2 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋