I am in a situation that I shouldn't be. I am in love (well not love but I like him a lot) with a guy who I know is not right for me and who doesn't quite feel the same. SO far he doesn't know, we are friends but that is all. I also have feelings for another guy. That guy did like me but I didn't like him and now that I do he has started talking to someone. I won't mess with that because that would feel wrong. This may not seem like a problem but I feel so down and sad. I am just so confused. How do people deal with this stuff, when you like people but they don't return your feelings. How do you get over this stuff? Honest answers please, but not mean. (I am already sad!)
2006-12-23 11:07:41 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Faith that you know you can love so strongly and he is a fool for not seeing that, Knowing that one day you will love a man so great and loves you back just as much that there would be no ache except the feeling of your heart will explode out of joy
2006-12-23 11:14:30 · answer #1 · answered by Katie 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your situation sounds like something that has happened to me before. There's an old song that goes, "You lover her, but she loves him. And he loves somebody else, you just can't win". I swear that was my life story for a while. It hurts when you like someone and they don't return those feelings. The only way I know to get over that is to just keep on trying. Sometimes you have to let people know exactly how you feel. Sometimes you might get hurt, but at least you let your feelings be known.
2006-12-23 19:19:16 · answer #2 · answered by BigJake418 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I know exactly how you feel. It is really hard to feel that way. Unfortunately there isn't anything to do but wait. TIme is the best healer. And try to think about anything else. Read, go out with friends, watch stupid movies, anything other thanthink of either of them. Good luck.
2006-12-24 13:25:58 · answer #3 · answered by artimis 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
they are not the right person then or the timing is wrong,like it was for you when the other guy liked you,it does hurt,try to move on and have fun ,remember 'whats in store for you will not pass you by' meaning if its meant to happen it will!!! These are wise words from my grandmother and with relationships this seems to be true,good luck
2006-12-23 19:13:40 · answer #4 · answered by NATALIE W 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You'll be ok, just know that for every person who doesn't like you, there are 2 out in the world who'd love to meet you. Go out and enjoy yourself.
2006-12-23 19:14:43 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I dont honestly know truly but u are not in love or u wouldnt like two people........
2006-12-23 19:15:00 · answer #6 · answered by happy_go_lucky 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋