Their was this one girl that I really liked and I mean really liked I couldn't stop thinking about her I still like her but I've asked her out lots of times and sometimes she would say maybe one time I asked her to a dance she said she would have gone with me but she had a soccer game and another time there was a dance one of her friends told me she would have gone with me if I would have asked her which I didn't so not too long ago I decide to just try one more time and see what would happen she just said no so no I don't know what to do I feel kind of down and I don't know if I should move on or keep trying with her.
THANKS FOR THE HELP!!!
2006-12-23 10:58:12 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sure, I can help you all you want, but are you going to do what I tell you? Or are you going to quit because it's too hard to get yourself together? Do you want to stay single and be rejected, or or are you going to make the commitment to do what it takes to turn yourself into a winner?
Before I tell you what you did wrong, I want to commend you on having the confidence in asking this girl out. Some men can't even get past saying hi to a woman. I like to say they don't have the cojones. Confidence takes you a third of the way, congrats on that.
But, you were maybe just a little too over confident. You can ask a girl out 50 million times, but her mind was made up from the first time you asked her out. And it wasn't a yes. Women don't say no when they don't want to go out with you, they just say every excuse ever in the history of excuses. I had one guy tell me that a girl he wanted to go out with couldn't because she was on medication and it was making her looney. She said she needed to be checked into a hospital! Remember, it's either a yes, or next. Here are the reasons why women lose interest.
First of all, dude, I hate to tell you this, but lots of guys are in the same boat as you, but they just won't admit it. The reason girls lose interest is because there's something physically wrong about the guy and/or men don't know how to talk to them.
Well, I'm sure your not ugly. And even if you are, we know even the Notorious B.I.G. could score some classy ladies. I know for sure that you just didn't know how to approach her. Your confident, you asked her out alot, so that shows you have a personality. But you can't approach a girl like you do with your buddies.
Women have a comfort zone, so come across with a little humor, show a woman your a harmless guy. Women know that you're trying to pick them up, so don't beat around the bush. Be direct and let them know exactly what you want. By doing so, you'll come across as a confident and straightforward man. Just get the digits and get out. Call a few days later, and just set up a date and hang up. You'll find the more girls you talk to, the more you practice this, the chances of getting a date will increase.
Love is a numbers game, and good guys like yourself just need to keep dating, looking for the diamond in the ruff so to speak. So forget this girl, and move on. Besides, her seeing you with other girls might switch the role, having you decide if you want to date her or not if she keeps hollering at you. Just remember, the key to women is to not take them personally, just role with it.
2006-12-23 12:07:21 · answer #1 · answered by TheRealHitch 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just lay low for a while. If she's just playing hard to get, seeing you "giving up" will hopefully make her realize how much she wants you. Don't keep pestering her because then you risk your friendship as well.
2006-12-23 11:02:06 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on. She was trying to tell you no without hurting your feelings.
2006-12-23 11:02:33 · answer #3 · answered by senmonwabio 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you sound very young. my answer is for you move on. there will plenty of girls in your life. don't let one person bring you down. hold you head up and keep on moving. take pride in who you are.never let a person know that they can get you down.
2006-12-23 11:04:14 · answer #4 · answered by susta1951 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just keep trying- shes just busy
2006-12-23 11:01:35 · answer #5 · answered by C&J 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'm getting that too perpetually each from time to time i basically imagine I have extra for myself and noo u dont choose consuling im extremely surre anybody has thsoe moments of their time s os dont be freaking out! :)
2016-12-01 03:11:14 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
move on shes just playing games with you
good luck if you ever need to talk love_all_hate@yahoo.com
hope to talk to you soon
2006-12-23 11:03:25 · answer #7 · answered by xoxbabexoxox 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
move on u sound so desperate and annoying
2006-12-23 11:02:25 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋