I am worried that i won't get married.. I know i shouldn't worry about things like this now, i am 16, but it just consumes me! I can't stop thinkin about it! Does anyone know the ratio of married women to non married women?? What can i do to get a boyfriend!?!
What are the chances that i'll get married!?! What percent of women get married?
2006-12-23 10:57:06 · 17 answers · asked by craazzeechick 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You don't need to worry about that. Boys will be going in and out of your life for ages now and there are so many out there that will like you. The chances are very high that you'll get married. Seriously, don't worry about, you'll find the perfect boy in no time.
2006-12-23 11:00:46 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
U'll get married. It'll happen when u least expect it. U'll fall for a guy u didnt think u'd like, and with a little work, u'll work things out and might even have kids. But if u want to be single, that life can be good too. Everyone thinks u should be married, but there are a lot of couples who don't do that anymore, they just live together. But u know, a lot of people who don't find anyone in high school, find someone in college, and usually, they end up marrying their college sweetheart. Don't worry, I understand what ur going through. The silent peer pressure can be unbearable...but u'd probably appreciate it more if/when, u find ur prince charming, and work to keep it more than other ppl ur age will.
2006-12-23 11:04:41 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
well, i dont know the stats. but if u keep this up, u r probably not going to be in the married statistic. u need to calm down and relax. ur way too young to be thinking about marriage, so even when u do get into a relationship, ur going to scare him away with this ****. u cant just start a relationship. first convince urself that u want to date just to have fun. u must date many ppl before the one u marry. once u can accept this, make urself pretty (work out, get a hair cut, buy new clothes, whatever) and just flirt maybe a little more than ur used to. but dont just be easy. make some guy friends and hang out with guys. things will lead to another, but u must give it time
2006-12-23 11:02:03 · answer #3 · answered by Steph 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
start by letting the boys know you are looking for a boyfriend.
this is done by a hanging out with or where the boys are.
dressing in a manner that makes you look like the girl next door but also the wild girl down the block.
next talk to boys stand near them when you talk real near touch them on the arm sholder and so on .
mention movies that have lots of sex or romance in them and make them think they brought up the subject of sex when you do this.
make sure you look nice hair and all of that
dont get fat if so get in shape not thin but in great shape.
find some girls that or a girl that gets invited to lots of boys parties and become her friend and then go to the parties with her.
put out .
how much you put out is up to you too much and you get more then a boyfriend too little and you get no where.
relax the boys want you if you are not so fat that if you sit on them they die then they want you . if your not so ugly that they leave the room to eat when your there then they want you ,
if you have breath coming out of your mouth they want you .
if your body has not decompossed they want you .
this is pretty much all you need to know that and be polite at all times be polite say thank you when you well you know get some.
learn to cook not a joke very important learn to cook and show them you can cook clean and do all the house work needed you might think this is some new age and men dont want or need that but the divorce rate says otherwise . lack of a good meal is a good reason to leave a wife.
2006-12-23 11:08:02 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Please believe me-You have nothing to worry about. There is a guy out there for you, but for the time being-DONT WORRY ABOUT MARRIAGE!! At sixteen, you still have to graduate highschool, then college, and get that big money making job! Why are you so worried? Enjoy your life as it is now because before you know it, those cherished highschool years will be over. Youth is King!!
As for getting a boyfriend, if you see a guy you like, try talking to him-but be cool about it. Walk up to him and say "can we talk for a second?" If he says yeah, then ask him if he has a girl. If he doesn't-let him know you like him-get those digits. This is real important- if you approach him, make sure he's by himself. Guys have a tendency to front when they're with their friends. Get him by himself and then kick that game to him-he'll be yours. Whatever you do-BE YOURSELF. Always works for me. :)
2006-12-23 11:18:21 · answer #5 · answered by Tishmay 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're only 16 years old sweetheart. Marriage is one of the last things you need to worry about right now. When you're 22, you can start giving it a moment of thought. For now, worry about more important things than marriage...like school, friends, family, and boyfriends. :-)
Good luck!
2006-12-23 11:09:51 · answer #6 · answered by Greg S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Relax sweety, your 16 for pete sake! you have plenty of time for a boyfriend. Just focus on your school and what you want to do for the rest of your life.
Stop worrying about it and looking for it.. one will come along, when your not expecting it. If your looking you may find the wrong one and we dont wnat that now do we??? no so relax and take your time... you have the rest of your life to get a boyfriend. be single in highschool and have fun.. its suppose to be the best years of your life.. enjoy it!
2006-12-23 11:02:45 · answer #7 · answered by Chunkerbutt 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
first of all the more you worry about it the less it's going to work. you need to sit back and relax, spend the time you've spent worrying about a boy on you instead. There's a right time for everything and if you try to rush things you might not find the right guy, while if you wait the right man for you will come at the time that he should, but above all remember to pary, tell GOD about your worries even though he already knows it's nice to havce someone to talk to, tell him ask him to prepare a man for you.
2006-12-23 11:01:01 · answer #8 · answered by Akina Wa 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are screaming "desperation" from every pore, and guys can sense that from 20 feet away and will avoid you. Lighten up. You'll get married or you won't, try and have a fulfilling life no matter how it unfolds and stop telegraphing neediness and desperation to men.
2006-12-23 11:01:23 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
About 70%-80% of women get married. I recommend you continue or start being friends with men. If you're still clueless after a year, lavalife.com is the way to go.
2006-12-23 11:00:30 · answer #10 · answered by Jenna 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋