my ex-bf and i both cheated on each other, and we broke up a few months ago. he has a new gf now, but he's cheating on her with me. i know he doesnt love me anymore, but im still in love with him. we've tried not talking and not having sex and just being friends but none of it ever works. at this point, i doubt a relationship could work between us becuase of trust issues, but i really enjoy having him as a friend. it just seems that we always see each other when we try not to. and we always get emotionally intimate telling each other how much we care. i dont know what to do. we cant seem to bare to be without each other, so should i just continue on sleeping with him and or trying to be really good friends?
2006-12-23 10:43:59 · 10 answers · asked by Steph 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Do you honestly think you can be friends right now? Do you think it would be possible to again separate yourself from him and then maybe slowly talking again. It seems like you guys should take a serious break from each other and give each other times to grow in ways that will show both of you that you don't "need" each other, or show you that other people can give you the emotional intimacy that you beliveve you only get from each other. I definitely know that sleeping with each other will not help in anyway. It complicates things.
2006-12-23 10:49:02 · answer #1 · answered by Isabella O 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think your right when you say a relationship just wouldn't work at this point because of trust issues, its ok to be friends and its ok to sleep with each other as long as you are both ok with it, but you shouldn't be doing it while either of you is with another person, and the whole friends with benefits can get very difficult at times, your best bet would probably be to either just be friends and stop sleeping together or stop seeing each other all together....
2006-12-23 10:48:38 · answer #2 · answered by Justin M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You really enjoy having him because you are still having sex and in love with him but you know he is no good. He is cheating over his new girlfriend with you I hope you don't think that makes you special. You have to choose to go on are it will continue do you have low self esteem to continue to be with a man for those reason you are worth more than than he is using you wake up. Please start loving yourself and let a good man find you but that will only happen when you find yourself in being confident. How do you see yourself? You sound like you are in alot of pain. Don't settle for less we are women get the 1st best.God bless you Would you want a girl to be screwing your man like you are doing her ladies can we all just get along and stop sleeping with other women men. women are not your enemy its the cheaters!!
2006-12-23 10:55:28 · answer #3 · answered by tellthetruth 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Seems that you're doing the "friends with benefits" thing. I also believe that you're setting yourself up to get hurt by him. The cheating thing has a way of being found out...as you well know. She'll eventually find out about both of you. Best of luck to you.
2006-12-23 10:52:57 · answer #4 · answered by cajunrescuemedic 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is feeling accountable and now doesnt desire u 2 b with out one else 4 worry that u will b chuffed. She appears like she has 2 carry on 2 u and attempt 2 make up excuses as 2 y she HAS 2 dangle out WIT U! dont fall for it because of the fact if she depended on u n the 1st place she could have never permit u flow. Ever heard of "u dont omit ur properly til it run dry?"
2016-10-28 06:10:28 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
OMG. OK WELL THE REASON Y U CANT HAV A RELATIONSHIP AGAIN OR CANT WORK THINGS OUT IS CAUSE UR STILL HAVING SEX WITH HIM!! UR MAKING URSELF LOOK LIK A H*E! HE WONT LET U GO BECAUSE HES GETTING SUM FROM U N UR BEING STUPID BY GIVING IT UP TO HIM. I WAS GNA SAY THATS HOW ME N MY EX R LIKE THAT WE CANT LET GO BUT WE DONT HAVE SEX! I REALLY THINK THE ANSWER TO LETTING GO IS TO STOP SLEEPING WITH 1 ANOTHER!
2006-12-23 10:53:18 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't live with him and you can't live without him...you're just going to have to make a choice. But it seems like you guys really care for eachother not to stay apart.
2006-12-23 10:50:26 · answer #7 · answered by Sonny E 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your childish. Grow up
2006-12-23 10:48:00 · answer #8 · answered by masterzuaba 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
are you from GA? My b/f ex is named Stephanie. What's your ex's name? Please respond
2006-12-23 10:49:41 · answer #9 · answered by barefootmodel 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lol.
2006-12-23 10:45:42 · answer #10 · answered by cdub 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋