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2006-12-23 10:42:09 · 18 answers · asked by goodgu l 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Parenting
It depends on some things. I'm from a country where it's very normal for adults to live with their parents until they're married or even after they're married. Especially if the parents don't want to live alone when they're older, etc.
2006-12-24 07:46:24 · answer #1 · answered by bogey 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I am 38 and I live w/ my parents by choice. They are elderly and I help w/ bills, mowing the lawn, putting up outdoor Christamas decor, and I am a very good cook and I have bought all the food for the holidays. I earn my keep w/ my parents. And my siblings are grateful that someone like me, who does have things better to do, helps with our parents. It gives everyone in the family a sense of security knowing they are doing well. I will be the first one there in case of an emergency. There is also one more upside to it all, they are giving me all their real estate in due time. But that's only a bonus for actually giving a crap about them. There are so many other elderly people out there who have family, but no one cares. Just try to imagine what it's like to die alone, house run down, broken car, unpaid bills, needing medication etc... The list goes on.
2006-12-23 12:45:01 · answer #2 · answered by The Eagle Keeper 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Personally, I think so. I believe that children should be out of the house by 18. But if the person pays some bills and helps out around the house, I don't see a big problem. It's pretty much just like living with roommates or something.
2006-12-23 16:12:01 · answer #3 · answered by ☆Tąrą☆ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on what you are doing. Do you have a plan? Are you attending school? Do you have a job? Are you paying your own bills and pitching in for utilities and food? At 21 you should be supporting yourself even if you are living there. If you cant pay your bills or need their money that is a problem at your age.
2006-12-23 13:12:58 · answer #4 · answered by coach 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
It depends on the situation.
If you are 21 and going to school or working and paying for your room and board it's perfectly fine.
If you are 21 and doing nothing but sleep, eat and hang out with your friends, then NO, it is not ok.
2006-12-23 14:56:03 · answer #5 · answered by devils'littleangel 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Living with, or living at. There is a difference.
Living at your parents house, paying for your keep, and contributing to the household isnt a problem. Living with your parents while they support and care for you is.
I was 18 when I moved out. moved back in for a brief spell when I was 20, and got married and moved out again. You have to grow up some time.
Personaly I think parents should open the door and boot the kids out at 18, they can come home whenever, but they should certainly get out on their own and make the effort. its the best way to learn about real life.
2006-12-23 10:45:54 · answer #6 · answered by amosunknown 7 · 4⤊ 2⤋
With the economy the way it has been for the past several years., the average age of an adult child still living with parents has risen to nearly 30. So, don't worry about it and do what you can to move if you are ready, but don't rush it. Moving BACK in with your parents really stinks.
2006-12-23 11:03:53 · answer #7 · answered by neo_maxi_zoon_dweeby 5 · 2⤊ 1⤋
No, not if your working and helping out as much as you can. The cost of living these days, some times you need a little help! Too!!
2006-12-23 10:52:44 · answer #8 · answered by Winkey 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
That depends what you are doing with yourself there. If you are working and helping them out or going to school, then it is a good way to get a jump start on life. If you don't work or you work just at a fast food restaurant and you spend all your time goofing off, then you are just taking advantage of them.
2006-12-23 10:48:04 · answer #9 · answered by Aloe-ish-us 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
No. As long as you help pay the bills and get a job, and not just live off your parent's support, then it's okay. I am twenty, and still live at home.
2006-12-23 11:08:59 · answer #10 · answered by Annamarie 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋