ok well we have kissed and flirted alot, ive known him since i was born and i liike him a lot but i am afriad that if i ask him out that my friends think that i am wird also we now go to differnnet schools but evertime we are together it seems we start to like eachother all over again, throught out the yaers the timing has never been right betwwen us do you think i should go afetr him
2006-12-23 10:39:17 · 6 answers · asked by shortysherry46 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Why not take the chance? If you've kissed, then he obviously knows you two have something going on so telling him straight out how you feel shouldn't hurt anything. Don't worry about what your friends will think if it makes you happy.
2006-12-23 10:48:35 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First decide if it is really love, because you are taking a chance on losing a great friendship. If you have kissed, why didn't it, at that time, progress? Who pulled back from a different type of relationship? Is he with someone else, and open about it? Does he make any overtures toward dating you? Watch for signs that he cares for you on a relationship level rather than a friendship. If there are no signs, you then have to decide if you want to wait, that he is the only man for you, and then talk to him about it. Remembering that the consequences may be that you scare him off. Or hopefully, you can examine the relationship and both of you decide which way it is going. If only a friendship, no hard feelings, and you both can rejoice when the other gets a mate. You will still have a dear friend.
2006-12-23 18:46:11 · answer #2 · answered by dutchlady 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Wow, I think he probably feels the same way you do. Keep spending time with him when you can, sounds like you guys might be ending up together.
2006-12-23 18:41:38 · answer #3 · answered by renni1010 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your life is not like "Friends"
If you value the friendship then no.
If it's worth possiablly losing the friendship, go for it.
2006-12-23 18:42:43 · answer #4 · answered by Jason 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go for it! It sounds like you two were made to be.... So make it happen!
2006-12-23 18:46:09 · answer #5 · answered by marajader2d2 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No..do not put your friendship at risk unless you think there is a lot of PASSION there
2006-12-23 18:40:53 · answer #6 · answered by alexmackbooks 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋