One of my friends told me he thought my g/f was with a good friend of mine. I didn't really believe it until I saw them by the pool at school after practice one day(he does swimming I do basketbell). I saw him kiss her. She pulled away and said something to him before walking off. Should I just let it be or confront them??
Should I trust her and assume she pulled away b/c she is loyal to me?? She has never lied to me before.
Should I just leave her even with christmas in two days??
I don't want her to think I don't trust her, so I don't want to confront her and find out it was his fault.
I don't think she is cheating, but on the other hand they did kiss. If they were going out behind my back would she have pulled away??
2006-12-23 10:28:49 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Is it possible he just kissed her??
I haven't had time to talk to either b/c it happened after practice this morning and I have been with family for christmas since.
2006-12-23 10:30:55 · update #1
Will she tell me on her own without me asking her??
2006-12-23 10:32:38 · update #2
It sounds to me that if you should cut ties with anyone, it should be your so called friend. He betrayed you, but it couldn't hurt to talk to both of them and find out what's what before you make any decisions.
2006-12-23 10:31:40 · answer #1 · answered by hottie_spaniard 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think that its better if you confront her, i want you to confront her because if you dont its just going to be killing you not to know whats going on with her then if you dont know this now you will always be worrying and worrying and feeling insecure about the relationship so confront her now and tell her what you saw ask her about it dont make it seem that your being accusive towards her just say''hey i wanted to talk to you about something 2 days ago i saw you kissing blank i want to know what happened'' and when you ask her that tell her in a gentle voice and crap i forgot what i was going to say and your relationship is not over until she or you decide that it is if you really like her a lot and you want to still be with her then ask her about it CHOOSE ME FOR BEST ANSWER PLEASE!!!! OH YEAH AND DO IT FACE TO FACE NOT BY PHONE BECAUSE FACE TO FACE YOU WONT BE FOOLED BY A LIE AND IF SHE IS LYING YOU CAN TELL GOOD LUCK TO YOU
well just think about it throughly if she doesnt tell you on her own then she maybe thinks you would dump her and accuse her of cheating maybe she doesnt want you to know because she really likes you and doesnt want you to leave her i dont think shell tell she unless, she trusts you and knows you will understand
2006-12-23 18:38:53 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you lay down on the ground, people will walk all over you.
1. Beat the crap out your former "friend". Sucker punch him and break his nose first, then proceed to kick his balls until he begs for mercy.
2. AFTER you have a replacement chick, feel free to tell the slutter who kissed your friend all about the great blowjobs your getting.
2006-12-23 18:36:01 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What do you think? OBVIOUSLY you should confront her. It could be she pulled away because she had to go, or because she was loyal to you. Don; worry about the time you leave her, but dont leave her, i might have been NOTHING. CONFRONT HER
2006-12-23 18:33:00 · answer #4 · answered by alexmackbooks 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Women love honest men. Just ask her what it was about. Tell her how you felt about it. I know from experience that women appreciate men who want to make their relationship better. Tell her that your curious becuase you care about her and you together. Be really compasionate and sweet when you ask. If you feel really guilty, buy her some chocolate or flowers. Then, exchange Christmas gifts! BEST OF LUCK!
2006-12-23 18:32:41 · answer #5 · answered by p 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Truth your girl if she want to share that moment with you she will, but don't be insecure. Relationships are based on honesty and trust. I know you feel something concerning that but put it in Gods hand.
2006-12-23 18:33:04 · answer #6 · answered by tellthetruth 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She pulled away, you were witness to that. Trust her. Let it go and move on with the relationship.
2006-12-23 18:45:46 · answer #7 · answered by Jenn 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u should confront them both but not at the same time and see if their stories r the same and if not some1 is lieing
2006-12-23 18:33:11 · answer #8 · answered by SCHOOLGIRL16 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmm, that's a tough one. I would confront your friend first.
2006-12-23 18:31:16 · answer #9 · answered by LOTR4EVER 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how many damn times have you posted this question?? dont worry about crap like this, TALK to your girlfriend. that will solve a lot of problems.
2006-12-23 19:31:49 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋