she loves kids very much when they go they stay for weeks at a time well.......this will be my 1 month old 1st time my oldest is 1 1/2 and she first went when she was 3 weeks,should i let them go knowing monday is x-mas or shouldn't i,or wait after x-mas,but do you think she think i will be acting fun,also my daughter went young should i let my son go .........she is a very nice person even though she is my bf mother she treat me like a daughter of her on
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ALSO REALIZE I DO NEED A LITTLE BREAK
2006-12-23 10:27:02 · 3 answers · asked by tasha_putnam 3 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Parenting
the reason she might not want to stay at our house " daughter moved back in and she has custody of her husband kids and daughter kids bascially a house full so it like a package deal
2006-12-23 10:36:26 · update #1
I think she should come up, stay a couple days and be there for christmas with all of you, and then take the kids for a little while.
if thats your thing.
I cant imagine letting my newborn or infant go for days without me, esepcially at its first christmas time.
2006-12-23 10:30:32 · answer #1 · answered by amosunknown 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you need a little break and you trust your bf mom and know she loves and will care for your babies then there's no reason you shouldn't let her take them. If you don't think you can be without your babies on Christmas day, ask her to wait but if you're ok with her having them for Christmas, then let them go for Christmas.
It's a lot of work for you to be taking care of two little ones and if you need a break, you shouldn't feel guilty for taking a break, especially when your babies will be well cared for. :) Both are too young to remember who they spent Christmas with yet.
Have a wonderful Christmas whatever you decide.
2006-12-23 17:28:20 · answer #2 · answered by Canadian_mom 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why dont you have your bfs mother come to YOUR house
2006-12-23 10:32:13 · answer #3 · answered by =X 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋