i recently saw a wab page my b/f has joined. i checked it out and most of the content and forums seem to be man wants girl, girl wants man, arranging meetings and all sorts of dodgy things, it basically looks like an internet dating website and possibly online sex, although ppl do meet up. should i ignore it or ask him. would it be classed as cheating if its online?
2006-12-23 10:27:02 · 13 answers · asked by cookie 85 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If he joined the site there is a definate reason for doing so. He's looking for something that isn't present in his daily life. Perhaps he'd like a 3'some or a fling with another woman or even a man. Or perhaps the page has video links or nude pictures and he enjoys masturbating to them.
All sorts of possibilities here. None are good. I'd suggest you have a serious discussion about this and don't put him on the defensive just talk about his visit to this site and find out why he's going to it. If he gets mad or appears to feel some sort of guilt for doing so I'd dump the jerk.
Honesty and being faithful in a relationship is mandatory and if he can't live up to those two mandatory things, tell him to hit the road.
2006-12-23 10:51:31 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ask him. It isn't clear from your question whether you are living together or just dating. If the former then you are entiltled to make it clear that you will not accept this and that you do not expect him to go on a website like this again. If dating then a discussion with him about whether you should continue the relationship (no I don't mean a row) is in order. Just remember that no-one needs to accept anything form a relationship that could harm them or the relationship.
2006-12-24 02:43:22 · answer #2 · answered by D B 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's not happy is he? If he was happy he wouldn't need to go to those pages. They are there for sad or lonely people.
Talk to him, but DO NOT tell him that you know about the web page, find out what's wrong, it probably won't be easy to get him to talk but, when you know, put it right if you can, or move on.
If he isn't happy and it's not sorted he will eventually make you unhappy.
Ain't life a b*t*h. Good luck.
2006-12-23 10:41:38 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Think about checking out the web site together - go on be brave and give it a go - you never know you might actually find it fun
Good Luck
2006-12-23 12:12:15 · answer #4 · answered by raythecat 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Er ... no, you can't ignore it if he has actually subscribed to it. It is all very well for people to surf about and be curious, but he has gone just a little but further, has he not? At least ask him to account for it!
2006-12-23 10:32:03 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
looking at a website isnt cheating though its not really acceptable.
however it seems that he is thinking about if not already has cheated.
you need to have a serious talk with him and see what he has to say for himeself
2006-12-23 10:57:39 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
leave him. he is with you and still looking. first chance he gets he's cheating on you. why waste your time with him. better yet, put your ad in so when he looks for singles in his area he will see your pic, lol. tell him you wanted to always be in his thoughts, lololol.
2006-12-23 10:34:42 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Good one, CareBear! More often, women, but there are some men who that would apply to, as well. ; )
2016-05-23 02:37:51 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have a right to be concerned, ask him!
2006-12-23 10:32:54 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just ask him.
2006-12-23 12:46:33 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋