My ex called me 3 times in the last 2 days i havent talked to her in 2 weeks till the first time she left a voicemail to call her back. I texted her and told her what im sure she wanted to hear then i didnt hear from her anymore then she called the next day she hurt me bad and i dont want her to think she can have me that easy what you think she is thinking....
2006-12-23 10:23:51 · 13 answers · asked by Confused 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
She is seeing if you still care- don't give her the benefit. It was nice while it lasted, now take what you got from it and move to the next chapter. Don't let her have a chance to hurt you again. You are worth more than that.
2006-12-23 10:26:37 · answer #1 · answered by littledreamergirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is thinking just what you said. Dodge her calls, she is using you to boost her ego. My ex of over 3 years, divorced since May called me and asked me to meet him at his casino hotel room. I told him YOU KNOW I DON'T CHEAT. He kept giving me choices to come see him, like we can just play slots and eat, I said no. he hurt me bad and there is no way i would hurt who I'm with, especially not with him. it's a control thing, as long as you are talking to her, that means you are not talking to anyone else. You get what I mean. It may hurt but when you see she is calling don't answer. Listen to the voicemails and you will see how she starts to get mad that you have gone on with your life.
her loss, let her know it.
2006-12-23 10:28:23 · answer #2 · answered by betterthanhers 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, did you break up with her, or did she break up with you??? She is probably just toying with you to see if you will go back with her....the easier you make it for her, the more she thinks she is "winning," in a sense! She wants you to think you need her back and you cant live with out her, and by you hearing her voice, its going to eventually get to you....its the familiarity of her that you might miss, but rethink the reason why you broke up! Do you really want to go back???
2006-12-23 10:27:06 · answer #3 · answered by Miss MotoX 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she obviously wants u back. that doesnt mean its a good thing. i had an ex like that but that ***** was crazy even though i loved her i had to let her go cuz she turned out to be strait out psycho. if she hurt u last time u talked to her just cut her off shes no good.
2006-12-23 10:27:03 · answer #4 · answered by boy racer 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she is lonely and she thinks she can take u for granted. get ready for a one night thing. she might be playing u!(or trying 2) good luck.
2006-12-23 10:28:28 · answer #5 · answered by Beaner :D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she might want you back or she could just want to talk it up to you and you just need to tell her how she hurt you and if you still want her take her back or just don't talk to her
2006-12-23 10:33:10 · answer #6 · answered by chris t 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she thinking you will take her back. Till she finds someone new.
2006-12-23 10:25:28 · answer #7 · answered by masterzuaba 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that she can get u back r if she's mean she might use u.. so be careful on what u choose
2006-12-23 10:26:34 · answer #8 · answered by SCHOOLGIRL16 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just ignore her.
change your number or bar hers.
she will keep this up.
dont let her hurt you again.
2006-12-23 10:26:28 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
she wants you back, maybe you have money, or she made a mistake :D
2006-12-23 10:25:26 · answer #10 · answered by Apollo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋