i was on toms email accout to print something when i saw a email from an old gf.she sent it 1 day ago and tom did not see it yet and does not know i read it then deleted it.this is what it said tom how are you?it was nice to see you again even if u did give me the cold shoulder.your girls are so big!mary.tom never told me he ran into her and shes not just any old gf.they have a long history and he left his 1st wife for her 5yrs ago.it sounds like he just ran into her at the store or something with his girls.my questions are what do you guys make of her email?why would she make a comment about him giving her a cold shoulder?what was she expecting?does it sound like she is after him again?i know your thinking well he gave her the cold shoulder why worry.i can't help and wonder if he gave her the cold shoulder only becuase the girls were with him and he wanted to get out of there before anything was said. they are old enough to repeat what they hear and turn him in to me or their mom.
2006-12-23 10:00:34 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Parenting
first off, he gave her the cold shoulder. that is good. how did she get his email address? I do hope you saved hers! I'd write her back and tell her to keep her greasy hands and comments to herself. better yet, act like him answering her, tell her, " I gave you the cold shoulder cause your getting fatter and uglier every day. i was ashamed to let anyone realize i knew you"
2006-12-23 10:10:49 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 3⤋
I was in a similar situation a few years ago, personally I think your guy gave her the cold shoulder because he wasn't interested. Men really aren't that complicated! It's women who play games and do one thing but mean another. If he ignored her just for the sake of his girls the old gf wouldn't of contacted him wondering why he wouldn't give her the time of day he would have already contacted her! Try not to worry if something is going to happen between them it will happen whether you worry about it or not, in fact it will probably happen if you get all jealous and possessive over him. Just remember they split up for a reason, he's with you now so forget the email and be happy :)
2006-12-23 10:08:07 · answer #2 · answered by xoclairexo 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I am sensing your insecurity.Tell your husband what you did ask him about it then have him block her out.A relationship can only survive on honesty on both sides.
Anyone knows this i do my ex for the last 6 years off and on has been traveling all over the world stealing money from mother aunts me for these trips because he never had a job meeting girls on the Internet and when it got to hot home begging him to get a job or get out that's what he did.Dint let it happen to you deal with it now don't wait until umpteen years go by none of us are getting any younger we have only one life live it to the fullest.Don, let lies destroy you as a person and it will...
2006-12-23 13:22:25 · answer #3 · answered by soledad67 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask him for a divorce. If you have to sneak around behind his back, Then remove all traces of your activity's. Your are very insecure and need some one different. You need to raise the standards you live by if you want some one to love you. And reading some ones mail is wrong! Keep it up and you'll be on your own in no time.
If you have any guts ask him about it and tell him how you herd about her.
2006-12-23 13:11:15 · answer #4 · answered by Bear 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't have deleted the email. If you'd have left it, then hubby could have replied and you could have checked his reply in the "sent" folder. You may have got the real reason why your husband gave her the cold shoulder. If she is after him, she will send another email...perhaps: " "why didnt you reply to my first email". On the other hand, deleting the email may be saving your hubby getting caught up in her web again. Best to let the subject drop, but keep an eye on him.
2006-12-23 10:25:18 · answer #5 · answered by Jamie 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
in line with threat he gave her the chilly shoulder becasue he would not desire nothign to do along with her anymore. you're able to give up snooping casue at some point you're able to locate somebody you do in contrast to. properly for the deleted e mail do exactly no longer tell him. yet now a days you could run into virtually all and assorted everywhere with out even attempting so it may basically been an accident. yet you desire to no longer worrybecause he could have talked to her inspite of the youngsters with him or no longer.
2016-10-28 06:09:13 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you sound insecure and that you have no faith in your husband or your marriage. I think he ran into an ex somewhere, and treated you w/ respect by not stopping to talk to her. And that the ex is the one extending the hand at friendship or whatever 'she' is after, not your husband. I think you are being paranoid and should just trust your husband.
2006-12-23 10:21:19 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
thats a bit weird i would be worried to arsk him about her not mentioning the emails and see if he gets all weird about the subject maybe send her one back saying u r his wife how are so she knows that u read them to good luck
2006-12-23 14:47:55 · answer #8 · answered by Sara P 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can do one of two things talk to him about it or watch his emails
watching his emails is a little underhanded and then what is your defense going to be when he finds out you have been deceptive to him ( yes I know nothing compared to what he is doing ) but you may want to keep your head high and be the better and bigger person by doing the right thing. talk about it
good luck
2006-12-23 11:11:07 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
I answered this last night, and I still have the same question. How did she get his e-mail address? Is it the same one he had when he was with her? If so, perhaps you have nothing to worry about. If not,well, I would be questioning some things.
2006-12-23 12:09:23 · answer #10 · answered by LittleMermaid 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋