heya i am worried!?

Question

im 13 big bust 4ft11 n i way 7stone many ppl in my class sey im chubby or fat. i am now very self concious and always put myself down do u fink 7stone is fat n what shud i sey to the ppl who are seying im fat? help xxxxx

Answer 1

Tell them to shove it

Answer 2

NO WAY!
I'm also 13, can't say I have a big bust tho lol and I'm quite small-size 4/6 clothes and I weigh around 7stone some days about 6st11lbs some about 7st2lbs. It's a healthy weight for someone our age. Remember you're still growing and a lot of people fill out before they get taller, so give it time....even if you are a little chubby you can get them back when you're gorgeous, tall and slim after you've finished growing!! How 'bout that?? Merry Xmas!! :D

Answer 3

I know it's hard because I've had that sort of bullying myself but try to remember that you aren't fat. Check out your BMI here:

http://www.bbc.co.uk/health/healthy_living/your_weight/bmiimperial_index.shtml

It's just a guide but you come out in the healthy weight range.

You say you have a big bust and I think that's probably the source of it. I bet the others look at you and feel intimidated by the fact that you're more developed than they are, so they attack you to make themselves feel better.

Try to think of it positively - they're jealous of your figure. It's hard to say what the best reply is without knowing the people, but I'm guessing that if you just say "Well I'm actually a healthy weight and I love my figure", they'll probably get bored eventually.

I know that it isn't an easy thing to say if you feel insecure, but I guess the first step to becoming more confident is faking it. Pretend to them that you are happy, then when they stop, you'll really be a lot happier.

Keep smiling and remember that they're just jealous because you're gorgeous! :)

Answer 4

Hi, I am 5ft & about 7st 5lb so 1 inch bigger than you & 5lbs heavier. I get fed up of people saying im skinny when im not. Maybe the girls in your class are jelous as you must be slim but also have a big bust? A lot of females have surgery to get the boobs so even tho it might hurt when they call you fat I wouldn't pay any attention. Try googling ideal weight & have a look at the results, you will be at the lightweight end of normal I assure you

Answer 5

You are not fat, do not listen to other silly people talking to you like that, they are trying to make you doubt yourself and if you listen to them they will get what they want. You are in no way fat, if you search the Internet there are sites that state the correct weight for height ratio's, you will see your not fat, and at 13 your body is going to keep changing for a few years to come you really really need not to worry about silly people and there comments.

Answer 6

Hey sweetheart, you are, by all means, not fat. 7 stone is very light. I know it's hard, but try and ignore the people who are calling you fat, maybe they're jealous of you? Don't put yourself down, seek out your real friends, they'll tell you the truth x

Answer 7

You're not fat. I'm 14 and 5ft1, and I wish I weighed something in that region. I'd tell them to go and sort out their education, learning what a body mass index is in the process.

Answer 8

don't worry about it i am 13 and i am 5ft 4 and i weigh more than you and if i was you i won't care about what people think of me
if you really want to lose weight then maybe go on a diet or maybe go to the gym with someone who is a little bit overweight
maybe that would help

Answer 9

your not fat,you probably think you are because everyone else says you are ignore them. if you want to get in shape, though, eat less junk food if you do, excerscise, and eat smaller portions

tell all the other people you dont care what they say. it all matters what you think.in a few years they will probably be jealous of you and try to be your friend.just remember what they said those few years ago.

hope ya take my advice,good luck!

Answer 10

wait untill your seventeen your weight shouldd even out but do yourself a favour and use English when your typing so annoying that way of communicating by the way my thighs weigh 7 stone so dont worry xx

Answer 11

7 stone is not heavy for a 13 year old, my best mate is stone she is 14 she is reli pretty gd figure. dont worry ur self if u r gettin bullied tell sum1 e.g parents or friends. good luck