My brother died from the war in October,lately, ive been in trouble and having nightmares about the video tape the news showed and i been very sad. What should i do?
2006-12-23 08:25:34 · 6 answers · asked by militarybrat2232 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
I'm really sorry to hear your loss...
If you are in deep pain, I don't really know if you can hear what I say but hope you realize your brother wouldn't want you to be so troubled. I believe his spirit would be able to look over you, if you are in great pain he would feel sorry, too. I wish you eat well and try to focus on something make you happy. Remember, you and I will all die sometime, someone is dyeing right now, death is simply a part of one's life. Without the death, life cannot be complete. It's a sad thing some young people dye so early, but if you think deeply it's sad all old people die, too.
2006-12-23 08:39:19 · answer #1 · answered by The Catalyst 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you should talk to the people around you and let thme know how you feel. Then get with a boyfriend or just someone you really love or care about and have a day alone with them and just enjoy the fact that you still have that person in your life! Just be happy and try not to think about that bad because if you keep thinking about the bad then the good can nevere enter into your life or into your heart!
2006-12-23 08:35:18 · answer #2 · answered by brownsugacookie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'm sorry about your brother - try not to watch the news - it's depressing enough for people who haven't suffered a loss like you have. you mentioned getting in trouble and having nightmares - it's time you talk to someone who cares - if it can be your parents, good - but, if that is not an option, why not go talk with a priest or minister they will help you with grace. finally, just think, would your brother want you to be depressed because of his death, i don't think so, i think he would want you to go on and make something of yourself, try to remember the good times with him and make him proud when he is looking down on you.
2006-12-23 09:00:03 · answer #3 · answered by try 2 help 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm so sorry , talking to people would help, try to find a counsellor or maybe even talk to friends or family. Try writing down your feelings at least you're getting them out instead of bottling up the grief.
God bless
2006-12-23 08:35:00 · answer #4 · answered by pansi1951 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like situational depression. This kind of depression responds very well to treatment, so my advice is, go see a therapist.
2006-12-23 08:30:50 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Probably be best that you go see someone and talk about it. It will be better for you to get it out.
2006-12-23 08:32:44 · answer #6 · answered by Whos your mama? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋