Do people say stuff they do not mean when they are drunk?

Question

Last night
My crush went to this party
She got drunk
When she came back, I asked her how was the party (over MSN)
She told me it was awesome (with random letters here and there)
Then she said "oh dude btw, spare the embarrassment, i wont remember this by tomorrow. (a pause) Do you like me?"
I did not know what to say...
All i said was "who wouldnt like u?"

I mean did she say that because she was drunk?
Because she never said that before.... so she didnt mean that?
If not... what was i suppose to say?
Should i ask her about it today?

We are both seniors at high school

Answer 1

Um.... the answer is no, love. You've undoubtedly heard (or maybe not) the saying, "A persons true colours come out when they have a few drinks" or something to that effect.
Well, if she, deep down, feels that way about you, and if she said so while drunk, then you can probably assume that she does. Maybe she's just a little too nervous to tell you while she's sober. (Hehe, you've heard of "Dutch courage"?) Ask her, not today, cos she'll be feeling kinda under the weather, lol, but ask her tomorrow. Do it quietly, not in front of everyone. Take her into a corner, maybe buy her a small bunch of flowers or chocolates, or something and surprise her. It may be only a little early in the relationship, but I think you'll be pleasantly surprised by her reaction.
All my best wishes, love, and good luck.

Answer 2

Well... first, if you are in high school I am concerned that you and your girlfriend are drinking. Second, the title is called "a nasty drunk". People that come from families where the parent(s) are nasty drunks are pretty likely to turn out as nasty drunks when they become adults. Personally, I don't socialize with nasty drunks, but that is my preference, as a person may choose to have a lifelong relationship with a nasty drunk if they wish.

Answer 3

Yes, definitely ask her about it today, face to face if possible, and hold her to it. Being under the influence of alcohol is no excuse, and quite often people speak their true feelings when they are drunk. I'd be careful though, she's going to parties and getting drunk, how old is she? Is this behavior acceptable to you? If it is, then go for it.

Answer 4

Oftentimes when people drink they relax to the point where they become less inhibited and thus say what they really mean.

That's why they say folks ought not to drink at business lunches since you may not have a job when you return from lunch.

Answer 5

I think what a person says while drunk IS what they are really thinking. I think that while drunk a person's truer self comes out. Inhibition's are lowered and more truth comes out.

Answer 6

Alcohol can be like truth serum.It makes people say things they may not have the stones to if they were sober.In most people.I wouldn't overreact though I would ask her about it.Good Luck.

Answer 7

Yeah people do crazy s*** when they're drunk. But in this case, i have NEVER heard of a drunk person typing.

Hrmmmm.......you should ask her what it was all about.

Answer 8

i feel that being drunk releases true emotions and feelings. so im thinking that she digs you and she wants you to tell her that you like her. did you save the conversation? if so print it out and show it to her... at first point on her typos and then key in on the part where she asked if you liked her.

Answer 9

actually its in contrast, when a person is drunk he/she expresses honesty so yeah when a drunk person says something even if they don't remember saying this they mean it. and u should of been honest with ur feelings for her.

Answer 10

u should have been drunk too!!!! but anyways... yea... when girls get drunk they get loose and say anything on their mind that they usually find inappropriate when theyre sober.

(HEY!!!! i tried to use the corrent grammer and plunctuation this time!!shout out to all you people that is a nal about it!)

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