should i tell my crush i like him?

Question

i have a crush on this really cute boy at school, he is nice and hot and perfect. i asked my friend to ask him if he likes me and my friend(who is also my ex) asked him out for me. my crush though he was kidding and wont take my friends seriously. should i tell him my self?

guys i have told him i like him, but he is hooked on his ex, what do i do now?

Answer 1

Never, ever, ever, do the "have my friend ask him for me thing!" If you are interested in a guy you have to tell him yourself, but be prepared for him to react either negatively or positively. Try approaching him when there is noone else around. And if he says he isn't interested you can move on and not have to worry what might have been.

Answer 2

I would attempt to be just friends with this guy first. No more getting friends to pass messages, etc. That is silly and boys don't like it. If you share any classes, offer to help, or ask for help. Just try to be a friend and see where things go from there. You might find that he is not as appealing as you thought he was. Or, things might turn your way when he discovers what a neat person you are.

Answer 3

I think you should definately tell him yourself. People usually don't take things seriously when something big, like you asking him out....comes from some other guy, especially when the guy is your ex. Clear things up with him.....it is always better to do things for yourself than to have someone else do it for you. Believe me, it causes a lot of confusion!

Answer 4

i think you should tell him i had the same problem the boy i liked liked me and asked my friend to go tell him and he thought my friend was kidding he was gonna ask me out that same day but because i sent my friend to go ask him out for me the boy thought that i didn't like him and that i was a stupid b**ch so i never got to go out with him you should tell him even if you get rejected at least you tryed and now you wont have to wonder what would have happened if you didn't ask him and you know what he might admire your bravery and say YES

Answer 5

for me, sure but the reaction will be with the guy...
he may consider it as TURN OFF that a girl ask him out first or maybe a TURN ON since it wont be difficult on his part to meet new friends...

Answer 6

Honey, you have to tell him sooner or later because you will never be together if you don't. You should take the risk and if he says no then he is not worth a second of your time. If he says yes, be proud of yourself because you had courage!

Answer 7

yes because stirring ain't going to get you no where just go over there and tell him you need to talk to him or tell one of your friends to write a letter stating that you like him and ask him if he want to go out sometimes okay be brave .

Answer 8

yea! go for it. but first flirt with him and find out if he has any intrist in u so when u ask him u don't look like a total idot if he doesn't like u
i'm an expert

Answer 9

yesss...tell him...yourself..guys love it when girls tell them themselves...it starts the trust before the relationship takes off...and what if you dont tell him...then you have to go on through life wondering how your life would have been different if you would have just told him how you felt...just tell him..and if he feels the same thats great..if not...move on

Answer 10

yea you probablly should. Just approach him and ask him if he wants to catch a movie or whatever you have in mind