i have a bf but i miss being in love with my ex. its not that i miss just the fact of being in love... i just miss being in love with him. just that fact that i was in love "him".
is that normal. i remember this one time....his sn on AIM signed online and my heart JUMped up all the way into my throat.. well it felt like it and it was beating so hard even after 10 mintues of lying down i could barely breath just thinking about him.i denied loving him that day. i never wanted to say i love you but after that.... i realized i did love him.
but its "him". i don't know wat to do...
i'm not in love with being in love right?
i don't care about the feelings well i do but its him...its hard to explain.but is this normal to have moved on and still feel this way?
2006-12-23 08:05:46 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
btw. i hope the answers i get on this are people who have expierenced.. love.. or true love.
2006-12-23 08:08:16 · update #1
...well in a way i don't want to get past it.
in a way i kinda miss the pain too..
2006-12-23 08:16:56 · update #2
no, you should go back to him.
2006-12-23 09:06:58 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I dated a guy for almost 6 years. I loved him so much...we did however break up over a few minor issues. Anyhow, I have a new bf now, and I always think of my ex. It feels like I compare them all the time. Sometimes I feel like I should have never left my ex...but I have now been with my new bf for over a year and I love things about him too. I can definitely see what you are saying. What I have done though is focused on my relationship now. Knowing ANYTHING about what my ex has been doing would break my heart....so I have just decided that I moved on for a reason and I have found someone else who I'm falling in love with. Once you spend more and more time with your new guy you will probably think less and less of the ex.(if this current bf is good to you, that is). It also broke my bf's heart to see that I had kept in touch with my ex(he looked in my phone log to see I had spoken to him), so I even went to the extreme of changing my number. I cried about it-BELIEVE ME I WAS SAD, but I can look ahead and possibly see myself with this guy in the end. I wish you lots of luck and love in your relationship!
2006-12-23 08:22:00 · answer #2 · answered by BUTTERCUP 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I have been married for 7 years and love my husband very much, but once you love someone they are always in your heart it is completely normal to have feeling for an x but if it is not best 4 u u must move on and let someone else in
2006-12-23 08:14:57 · answer #3 · answered by sleepy forrest 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think you have moved on.I think you should end it with your current boyfriend,and call up your old one,and spend sometime with him.See if the sparks are still there.From your details you appear to be in love with your old flame.Yes it is normal to miss being in love with an old flame,but not while your with a new one! Good luck and Happy Holidays!
2006-12-23 08:13:41 · answer #4 · answered by fnocentelli 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its very normal, when i lost my first love it was a horrible experience. I missed being with her, missed loving her for so long. When you really loved somebody its so hard to get past that because all you want to do is be with them even when you know its best not to. Love is such a tricky thing but you just have to stay strong and eventually you'll get past it. It took me months to get past it but it will happen.
2006-12-23 08:15:37 · answer #5 · answered by JMan 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes-quite normal. I had a really hard time getting over my ex and had similar experiences. It's especially hard if you've been with the person for a long time.
2006-12-23 08:09:54 · answer #6 · answered by SusieeQ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
um, I don't think you moved on hun. I think you still may love this guy, or a least have feelings for him, big feelings. You need to talk to him / spend a day with him. If you still have feelings for him and he does for you, it's time to break up with the new guy and go back with the one you really care about.
2006-12-23 08:09:33 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just know that there is someone out there that will make you forget about him and love you even more than your ex ever did just remember that.
2006-12-23 08:09:39 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, it is normal. Everyone needs someone to love with.
2006-12-23 08:09:00 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes.
2006-12-23 08:11:57 · answer #10 · answered by Car freak 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For girls...yes. For guys...sometimes
2006-12-23 08:10:15 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋