Is she a virgin again? Is she so "tight" that it will FEEL like she's a virgin again? Will it be painful for her to have sex again? Will it hurt the guy she has sex with? Or will it be like she's been having sex like any other sexually active female who has sex daily?
What's it like for a female to not have sex for about 5 years?
2006-12-23 07:43:06 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I forgot to mention, she does NOT masturbate, doesn't use dildos, doesn't use tampons (she uses pads for PMS). Basically, NOTHING'S been "up there"
2006-12-23 07:52:55 · update #1
.... and she's always been on the "tight" side to begin with.
2006-12-23 07:55:19 · update #2
Why Some People Wait
Some people wait to have sex. They think about what it means to lose their virginity and begin a sexual relationship, and they have different reasons for waiting.
Their reasons for abstinence include worrying about unplanned pregnancy and all its consequences. Others see abstinence as a way to protect themselves completely from sexually transmitted diseases (STDs). Some STDs (like AIDS) can literally make sex a life-or-death situation, and many young people take this very seriously.
Some people don't have sex because their religion prohibits it or because they simply have a very strong belief system of their own. Others may recognize that they aren't ready emotionally and they want to wait until they're absolutely sure they can handle it.
When it comes to sex, there are two very important things to remember: one, that you are ultimately the person in charge of your own happiness and your own body; and two, you have time to wait until you're totally sure about it. If you decide to put off sex, it's OK - no matter what anyone says. Being a virgin is one of the things that proves you are in charge, and it shows that you are powerful enough to make your own decisions about your mind and body.
If you find yourself feeling confused about decisions related to sex, you may be able to talk to friends or family for advice. Keep in mind, though, that everyone's opinion about sex is different. Even though another person may be able to share useful advice, in the end, the decision is up to you.
2006-12-23 07:46:22 · answer #1 · answered by iloeta1164 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2016-05-23 02:15:41 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ofcourse she is not a virgin again..(You need to study about the concept of virginity).
if she was active 5 yrs ago but have not had any sex in the past 5 yrs.. i would say that u have got a woman the sex with whom would be just like volcanin erruptions....
2006-12-23 08:01:38 · answer #3 · answered by Inquistive_man 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Um. You pretty much answered your own question...LOL
What will it be like? TIGHT...DoH!
It might be uncomfortable for her, should feel great for you.
Just remember if your going to "do" her, take things slow, use lube, and dont skimp on foreplay.
Personally what's it like?
Don't think about it much. Lots to do besides having sex. Have noticed going without makes u appreciate it more when you do.
2006-12-23 08:01:35 · answer #4 · answered by Kurius_Kitten 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What's it like? It'd be frustrating as hell for me. Don't worry, she won't be "revirginized" by the experience. She may use a dildo on herself even if she hasn't had intercourse with anybody, and she probably also uses tampons if she is of child-bearing years.
Get over it. It will be like having intercourse with any woman.
2006-12-23 07:45:47 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it doesnt change anything. she might be feeling anxious about ding sex once again. she has to be more loose and open minded that sex itself is a basic physiologic need.
2006-12-23 07:59:37 · answer #6 · answered by eioj_pups 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it wont hurt the guy....feel great!!!!.....if u were really loose 5 years ago it tightens alittle but still semi loose...i dont think it would hurt the girl
2006-12-23 07:46:49 · answer #7 · answered by BigBat 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it means she has other things to do other look for sex. Not everyone is comsumed by sex.
2006-12-23 07:48:03 · answer #8 · answered by masterzuaba 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry cant answer that...but have done it after a yr and yea it did hurt_
2006-12-23 07:46:23 · answer #9 · answered by Chickybabe 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It means she has self respect and you dont have a chance if your thinking about her crotch instead of her as a person
2006-12-23 07:48:14 · answer #10 · answered by sufferingnomad 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋