Basiacally she wants to go over her friends house a lot lately and she has never done it before. We still hang out but she wants to be with her friends a lot. Basically im asking have any women out there gone through this phase and how long should it last before she balances me and her friends out. We have been dating for 6 years and i know shes not cheating. She just goes to her friends house talks watches tv and chills and calls me while shes there and lexts me to say ilove you and all that.
2006-12-23 07:39:25 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You guys have been together for awhile, so she's probably just needing some "her time" away from you for a bit. Eventually, the balance between you and her friends should naturally balance out.
2006-12-23 07:41:30 · answer #1 · answered by Delvala 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would say that she may be going through something in her mind about your relationship, not a bad thing, but re-evaluating where you two stand. I would encourage her to have her time with her friends, and welcome her home with some "extra lovin' ". That might be just what she needs to swing the balance of her time spent back with you. Keep an open line of communication with her. You could also invite her friend over to your place to have a "girls night in" , or be so bold as to say, "Hey, could I tag along this time?" But be prepared, girls when together to girl stuff. Good Luck!
2006-12-23 07:50:28 · answer #2 · answered by occasionallyrowdy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
as its been 6 yrs..may be she wants a little change and thats why she goes out to her friend's house..and may be when she is there..she misses u and she texts u ....
is her friend a man or woman ? how long have they been friends...
this is crazy word my friend...i am not saying that somethign wrong is happening.. but these days we have to have +ve and -ve possibliites both in the mind ..
2006-12-23 07:43:26 · answer #3 · answered by Inquistive_man 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
so what is your worry. it is good to have friends. My husband decided all of my friends are his and he's always with me. Most of the time that is fine but sometimes I just want to have some time with my friends. The few friends he has he doesn't hang with often but I wish he would it would be good for him.
2006-12-23 07:43:28 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe she feels that she had been neglecting her friends. Let her hang out with them. Maybe suggest going to see a movie together, with her friends. Include them in some of your plans together, and that might help.
2006-12-23 07:42:24 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
She's just having some fun with her friends and you should do the same thing. Just take some you tim and she'll have hers, but still go and have fun with her once in a while.
2006-12-23 07:47:41 · answer #6 · answered by Jenny 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well that depends if one of her friends is having problems just til her friend gets the problem fixed or did one of her friends just recently become single if thats the case find her friend a bf or this could last for along time
2006-12-23 07:43:58 · answer #7 · answered by froggy348 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would be honest with her. If you feel that she isn't doing anything wrong by hanging out with her friends. Just ask her if she can make time for you guys too. Tell her you don't have a problem with her hanging out with her friends that's good just to make time your relationship too.
2006-12-23 07:44:47 · answer #8 · answered by Marina 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
um... so? whats wrong with her wanting to hang out with her friends? you probably like to hang out with your friends, so why cant she? and so what if she expects you to tell her you love her? why shouldn't she expect that? your her boyfriend! give her a little freedom & let her be with her girl friends too. i mean it's not really a phase... she just wants to be with her friends so she can talk about girl stuff.
2006-12-23 07:43:34 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
she just needs space..its not a phase..u ve been together for 6 yrs..she prolly spent more time with u then her frndz thru out these 6 yrs...now she thought about it and she decided she needs space and she wants to hang out with her frndz cuz she misses them...get over it
2006-12-23 07:42:40 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋