Why do men never chat me up? If I start talking to someone, it always goes well but I never get approached. I am told that I am attractive etc etc and the men I start talking to always pay compliments and the like, seem interested but no-one ever tries to make the moves on me. WHY.........Oh Why??
2006-12-23 07:29:32 · 21 answers · asked by Andrea 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Try and be nice, can't be nice.............please don't comment. Thanks to you lovely people that are genuine x
2006-12-23 08:27:04 · update #1
my first thought is to blame someone or something so there are three things to blame here:
1) You
2)Other People
3 Your Environment
1) body language?
2) maybe you need to go to different places...
3) and talk to different people...
my biggest gripe though about "girls like you" yes! i am labelling you (sorry if you take offence) is this: why don't you go out and chat someone up. my advice would be to go for the quiet ones. there are some lovely people out there who would never think that you might be interested in them who would worship every hair on your head (and some that's not) if you let them.
even if you were bald they'd still worship you. (probably: if they were that desperate lol!)
anyway you get my meaning. you sound beautiful. give someone a well desearved present this christmas...
xx merry christmas!!
2006-12-23 09:53:58 · answer #1 · answered by Can I Be Your Pet? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2017-01-22 07:53:08 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe you're too beautiful and men don't think they have a chance? or when people have low self esteem it really shows! but if you stop thinking bout it when your out then you might find the offers pouring in?i was the type of girl that everyone said i had a great figure, great clothes but inside i felt like the ugly duckling, so i decided enough was enough! i forgot my woes and learnt to be myself and it really works! men can see the ones that are fun to be around.good luck and don't be so down on yourself!merry Xmas and new year x
2006-12-23 09:07:58 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Andrea, you have to consider that they may feel intimidating; feel that there's no way you would not be interested in them.
So, I suggest that if there's a guy you like, that you go and START chatting to him.
I know it's not easy; but I have tried that and it's amazing how it actually works!
You just have to accept first of all that if the guy may turn you down.
But hey, someone has to do something, and guys can be so shy????!!!
Go for it!
2006-12-23 07:40:37 · answer #4 · answered by Kc 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
men i funny thing if they see a attractive woman ,girl ..they will say "core" or what ever if they are with there friends ..but when it comes to 1 on 1 most men .....well go shy and talk with there foot in there mouths...if u fancy a fellow ..its 2006 so you can chat them up its ok...but if ur not sure then just go with the flow...when mr right comes along he and you will know..hope this has helped..
2006-12-23 07:35:32 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't know.
Maybe its your body language? It could be the guys you meet are unsure if you are interested in them. How do you respond to their compliments? Are you flirty?
I think you possibly may need to take the initiative & see if that makes a difference.
2006-12-23 09:01:18 · answer #6 · answered by Kingbee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
men are shy , well i am , i chat to a lot of good looking girls but don,t ask them out thinking they allready have a boyfriend , and regret it later , ive been on my own 3 years never even had a date , orrr , hope you meet someone soon , x .
2006-12-23 09:02:30 · answer #7 · answered by SIMON B 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
just wait and the right person will come along.my friend told me there is someone out there for you somewhere.
good luck and happy christmas xx
2006-12-23 08:51:09 · answer #8 · answered by blacktiger33 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you're attractive a lot of guys are afraid of chatting up pretty girls cause we might get told to get lost...
2006-12-23 08:34:48 · answer #9 · answered by boyfrombrazil 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe they are intimidated....you are soooo attractive that they feel scared to ask you out...or maybe you come across as stuffy? I don't know ask a male friend he'll tell ya how it is.....
2006-12-23 08:12:18 · answer #10 · answered by JackLove 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋