i love my mom yer but she keeps moaning at me what shall i do to cheer her up?
2006-12-23 07:25:01 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
talk to your mum see whats bothering her it might have nothing to do with you she might just need to vent some bottled up anger or she might be upset about something. that's always the case with my mum. yeah you could always buy her something but that would only cheer her up for so long but talking to her and really listening always makes her feel special and loved
2006-12-23 07:52:04 · answer #1 · answered by nat 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hun I'm a mom of 2 teenagers and they do things to me that make me wonder if they love me. I'm sure you love her in your own special way and the reason you don't know if you love her is because she keeps moaning at you and you just want to live your life as you WANT and the reason she moans at you is because your doing things your way and not her's. may be if you try and listen to her when she moans to you meet her half way do it half your way and half her's or next time you do something and she moans to you about it do it your moms way you never know the way she tells you to do it might work out better, that's what my kids do when I'm moaning at them they tell tell me to stop moaning but next time they do the same thing they try it my way and then sometimes they come up to me and say " thanks mom you was right i did it your way and it worked thank you" then give her some flowers to show that you appreciate her advice you know what us moms are like we know best lol
good luck hun hope it works out
2006-12-23 07:43:31 · answer #2 · answered by kjw 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know, being a mum is not always easy. We do have our moments. Stress, saddness...you name it.
Sometimes it's difficult to leave the troubles which come from outside, outside the house.
Your mum is maybe under a lot of stress; she may have a lot on her minds...
The best is maybe keep out of her way when she's in a foul mood. Give her time to calm down.
And then you could always try and talk to her about it when she's relax, and if you're old enough to use electrical appliances, make her a cup of tea.
Sometimes, we're so wrapped up in our problems, that we may well forget that our children are ....children.
Don't give up on her. x
2006-12-23 08:04:42 · answer #3 · answered by Kc 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well she might be moaning at you for a reason, so i guess stop doing the things that make her complain. Failing that, just be there for her, maybe buyher a bunch of flowers or some nice jewellry
2006-12-23 07:28:37 · answer #4 · answered by fozz89 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Buy your Mum some flowers and make her some cookies. If she is moaning at you, find out why!!
2006-12-23 07:30:18 · answer #5 · answered by Fi 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
your mum moans cos she loves you and only moans cos she thinks she knows best .."cleam your room" dont smoke" etc it what mums and dads do...i years to come you will thank her ..im sure ..100%...hope this has helped..
2006-12-23 07:31:35 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
A hug and a I love you goes a long way.
2006-12-23 07:28:43 · answer #7 · answered by m c 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if ur old enough , move out .that will cheer her up no end.
2006-12-23 07:30:30 · answer #8 · answered by needtoknow 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do something nice for her like cook her a meal
2006-12-23 07:27:34 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her your sorry for whatever you did . or just talk to her about it. talking helps alot.
2006-12-23 07:29:59 · answer #10 · answered by oh snapp 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋