Everything was just fine till her family knew about me. They didn't want me for a reason I don't know. After telling me that her family wont agree on me I told her that she doesn't have to worry everything will be OK. few weeks later she called me and told me that we should just forget about eachother because she thinks she doesn't love me and that it was her decision alone without any pressure from her family. I've been in hell for a whole year. I don't know if i should try again and talk to her. I don't know if she really don't love me! She never told me that she do... but i always felt it. what should i do now??
2006-12-23 07:13:25 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think that she'll make an effort to contact you, if she feels that she made a mistake.
Contacting her might just be adding salt to an open wound. You don't need more pain.
2006-12-23 07:15:59 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry to hear that you are going through this. It's hard when you love someone, but don't get the same in return. Also 4 years is a long time. You need to try your best to move on. You do not want to re open the wound. As hard as it is to accept, this is for the best. The longer she would of waited to tell you that it was over, the more pain you will endure. Keep in mind, you can't change someones feelings. The most important thing is that you deserve the same love in return. Keep searching, you will feel this love for another, and they will truly love you back. That's what makes it real... Good luck! :)
2006-12-23 07:24:58 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know how u feel..u miss her alot ..i cannot answer for her but I can say that I was in your shoes once and I am still in them now..I am still going through hell but it's been two years and the pain is slowly going away..the first year wasn't so easy and everyday i wanted to call her and ask her the very same thing..to even hear it just once..but it took alot out of me to stay away..i am not going to pretend that i didn't try because I did..but I knew I was hurting myself if I gave in..all i can say is preoccupy your time do other things and maybe meet someone new..it won't be perfect but u don't need to say anything about your past until you yourself are ready to let go of the past..if she loves u and u felt it then be patient it will be awhile but in time it will come to u..good luck~
2006-12-23 07:28:28 · answer #3 · answered by Charmer 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's not gotten in contact with you. So you can pretty safely assume she doesn't want to. While it sounds very harsh, you're setting yourself up for a fresh wound if you get in touch.
However, if you decide to contact her anyway, make sure you are clear in your own mind what your expectations of a relationship are. Make sure you're both on the same page.
Good luck.
2006-12-23 07:20:17 · answer #4 · answered by Tab 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have been too stable to her. If there is one element i've got learnt is that being too stable all of the time does not paintings in maximum situations. i'd in basic terms settle for that it is how that's, settle for the frustration and the soreness will go away, do you definitely need to take her returned after she has ditched you for somebody else? consistent with risk she does not understand what she needs and is attempting to test with different boys, yet you won't be able to be so fool to attend around for her, that's as much as her to make certain. i think of you will desire to attempt to go out and characteristic relaxing, go on trip with friends, come across a activity and date different females, stay your existence in basic terms for your self. in case you opt on her returned you will desire to do your guy or woman element, replace into unavailable and teach her which you would be able to pass on, it is the way she would comprehend she has made a mistake. whilst that occurs you would be happy with somebody else besides. do no longer cry over her please, she does not deserve you and you already comprehend it. of direction she would be able to be apologetic approximately it sometime, bear in strategies that we in no way understand what we've have been given till we lose it.
2016-12-15 06:56:35 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give it up dude and find the love you deserve. Nobody needs the family drama anyway..
2006-12-23 07:16:49 · answer #6 · answered by Angela F 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try again buddy.even iam in kinda same sit,but the only bright thing is we r still frens
2006-12-23 07:16:28 · answer #7 · answered by jd 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hell yes
2006-12-23 07:15:31 · answer #8 · answered by Zachary Seckman 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
give it up
2006-12-23 07:20:58 · answer #9 · answered by Allyson 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋