We usually go to mass regularly, but know they each want to go seperately.HELP HELP I NEED HELP PLEASE!
2006-12-23 07:00:08 · 10 answers · asked by CrazyGirlinaMessedUpWorld 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
you need to sit them down and let them know how you feel.
2006-12-23 07:01:34 · answer #1 · answered by Emi 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not up to you to solve their problems. My parents were constantly fighting when I lived at home, and it depressed me that there was nothing I could do to make them happy again. The one thing that I know is that you just need to be supportive. Maybe sit down and talk with them openly about how you're feeling. This might make them realize that they need to stop bickering and actually pay attention to what's important.
2006-12-23 07:03:26 · answer #2 · answered by Delvala 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As far as the person telling you that you should mind your own business, it is sound advice, except when it is hard to do so when you are hearing their yells and screams and you have to be holed up in your room. That's not good for you and to let it continue to do so will affect you for the rest of your life.
Talk to your grandparents (of either side) or talk to your teacher, school counselor or your priest, and see if living arrangements can be made so that you don't have to endure such hell at home.
2006-12-23 07:14:29 · answer #3 · answered by cnpcomp 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry, but there is nothing anyone can do to mend the relationship between your parents. It is upsetting to you, but it's something they have to work out for themselves. You can suggest counselling, but that's truly all you can do.
This is an especially hard time of year to have to face a breakup in the family, but truly, it has nothing to do with you. You didn't cause it, you aren't responsible for their actions, and you can't fix it. So don't assume any guilt over it. Suggest counselling - with their priest or with an outside counsellor, but if they won't do it, you will simply have to accept that.
The one thing you can do is not take sides, and if they try to drag you into a "if you love her you don't love me" situation, just repeat (many, many times) "You are both my parents and I love you both"
I know what you are going through -- my parents did that too, eventually divorced, and wanted me to take sides. But stick to your guns. Eventually they will accept it.
2006-12-23 07:11:08 · answer #4 · answered by old lady 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know that you want to help, but it is not your job to make them happy. Have you tried sharing your feelings with them? That would probably help the most.
2006-12-23 07:02:52 · answer #5 · answered by Abby 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Their fighting is not your fault and it is not your job to patch things up. Do let them know how you feel about seeing and hearing them fight and ask them to do it where you don't see or hear them. Tell them how important it is for you all to go to church together and how disappointed you are when you don't.
2006-12-23 07:12:15 · answer #6 · answered by Kraftee 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am sorry to say that their is nothing you can do to make them stop,however you can speak to your priest ,pastor ect. and ask the church to council your parents I am sure this would be a great help to all concerned.
2006-12-23 07:12:44 · answer #7 · answered by dennis s 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell them how you feel even if that means you have to scream. Let them know you want to make things right.
2006-12-23 07:03:09 · answer #8 · answered by chris 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
MYOB It's not your place to interfere.
2006-12-23 07:02:43 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you will be happy when they are happy. if they will be happy when they get seperate, dont stop them.
2006-12-23 07:36:08 · answer #10 · answered by zubeyde 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋