Is the relationship doomed if you do it too soon?
Is the relationship likely to be deeper if you abstain?
Does it all matter anyway?
2006-12-23 06:59:22 · 27 answers · asked by confused_kitty 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i guess if the guy is serious about you, he will not prefer sleeping with you in early dates or if is not , his whole orientation will be towards sex. Abstain from sleeping with him if you are looking for a serious relationship. i hope you are not mixing infatuation with love. Remember relationship starts after you fall in love and there is nothing like doing sex with someone you really love.
2006-12-23 07:15:39 · answer #1 · answered by winning_streak 2 · 4⤊ 1⤋
available. no longer likely. If this is in straightforward terms a random date, then you certainly're particularly putting issues on undesirable footing. this is not approximately getting to know them then, this is approximately intercourse. particularly, extra suitable to attend till you know the guy and have developed thoughts for who they do no longer seem to be basically what they appear as if. in keeping with that, i think of intercourse on the 1st date is a lot extra possibly to paintings interior the long-term if this is somebody you already know particularly nicely, and have a good favourite courting with and are interested in, despite if it wasn't a "relationship" courting. Rounded particularly some bases on a known date with a good chum, and the mutual feeling in a while grew to become into "woah, we ought to constantly have been doing this all alongside!!!" :D
2016-11-23 13:29:34 · answer #2 · answered by chasse 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should wait until you are married. It makes everything better. The old say of why pay for a cow if the milk is free is really correct. Good luck and abstain. Cheers
2006-12-23 07:07:22 · answer #3 · answered by flightmedicine 5 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Personally I think it does matter. Every relationship is different, and everybody trusts their boyfriend/girlfriend and starts to love them at different times. When it feels right, you will know. Just make sure it is what you really before you do it, you don't want any regrets. Sometimes it may be what you think you want, but in reality it isn't. If it were me I'd wait four months if it was someone I could really see myself with, only because I'd want to make sure. That's just me though. Good luck!
2006-12-23 07:03:35 · answer #4 · answered by Carrielynn 1 · 3⤊ 1⤋
Once you know:
1. It is in line with your moral, cultural, religious beliefs.
2. You know that person doesn't have any STDs.
3. You love that person and want to be more intimate.
4. You know that person loves you and isn't using you.
5. You've given the relationship enough time to know all of the above.
2006-12-23 07:08:48 · answer #5 · answered by Jesse2k 2 · 3⤊ 1⤋
Well, if he's into you it doesn't matter how long it takes.
Just do it if you feel like it.
Women always do things according to the way men see it; men are horn dogs all over the place without caring what women think.
2006-12-23 07:04:02 · answer #6 · answered by Mishee 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Women have told me that they have a "3 date rule," meaning no sex before the third date.
But, others have been quite content do skip the first 2 dates and go straight to bed on the first date. (Bless them.)
2006-12-23 07:02:43 · answer #7 · answered by David545 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
it depends on you and that person. every relationship is different. i dated a guy for 6 months before we slept together and about 8 months after that the relationship ended horribly. the next guy i dated we slept together on the first date and 2 years later we are still going strong and talking about marriage!
2006-12-23 07:03:52 · answer #8 · answered by chrissy 2 · 3⤊ 1⤋
2 weeks
2006-12-23 07:01:46 · answer #9 · answered by Ali D 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It is always smarter to wait until marriage. But if you can't abstaining for as long as you can will weed out the jerks and let you know who really wants to be with you for you and not for sex.
2006-12-23 07:04:22 · answer #10 · answered by Jan l 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋