how do i tell my parents i have a boyfriend? im not really supposed to have a boyfriend untill im older but i want to and i already have one. but how do i tell them that i do have one?
2006-12-23 06:21:49 · 11 answers · asked by jackiegomez45 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Honestly is the best policy. Telling them now will be SOOOO much better than them finding out later.
During dinner, or sometime when you're all together, start out by telling them about your boyfriend, then let them know that you like him, then let them know that he asked you out, and then that you said yes. Take it slow, and whatever you do, do not get defensive or start arguing with them. It will completely ruin your chances of proving to them that you are mature and responsible enough to be dating. Good luck!
2006-12-23 06:24:59 · answer #1 · answered by wnk 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You need to sit down and talk with your parents and let them know you really like this boy and maybe together you can work out a way that you can spend time together,but if you keep trying to hide him from your parents they are going to not trust you and once you loose their trust it hurts the relationship you have with them.Good luck
2006-12-23 06:28:24 · answer #2 · answered by dragonz6957 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honesty is always best when dealing w/family. Belive me! Finding out later will make it all worse for a LONG time.
2006-12-23 06:26:32 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
When talking to them, just mention his name and what he thinks about a subject....oh John---he's my boy friend........
Hopefully he's intelligent to have opinions on various subjects and is not focused only on taking you to bed.
2006-12-23 06:40:58 · answer #4 · answered by mypalnow2 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell them he is gay and not really your boyfriend. Better yet dress him like a girl and invite him for sleepovers.
2006-12-23 06:24:53 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
I already told them
2006-12-23 06:24:20 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
tell them, that if you told them a secret, they should promise not to get mad, then spill.
2006-12-23 06:24:46 · answer #7 · answered by shadow w 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just tell them, they may be mad but the will not hate you.
2006-12-24 06:35:04 · answer #8 · answered by FireFighter96 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Mom, Dad, you know that old pervert in the park............well, I'm in love with him and I want to marry him.............LMFAO
What are you......12?????
2006-12-23 06:26:41 · answer #9 · answered by CuriousMishawaka 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just tell them straight
2006-12-23 06:24:52 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋