we are in our early thirties, he still lives at home with mom, who is very nice, but.... he already bought me an engagement ring but has yet to give it to me, that is fine but do i hang on or move on.
thanks
2006-12-23 06:20:14 · 7 answers · asked by Just curious 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Take it from someone who's been waiting longer than 2 yrs... go now as fast as you can. A little hurt now is better than a whole lotta hurt later.
P.S what makes matters worse is his a momma's boy...you think you ever gonna fill those shoes.
2006-12-23 06:26:35 · answer #1 · answered by ? 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Depends. When did he buy the ring? Also, Xmas is coming you might be jumping the gun. If you don't get the ring at Xmas, ask him his intentions in Jan. Don't push him to give it to you though. You might drive him away. However, if you feel that this is hurtful and that he is someone not committed or not willing to commit further, for whatever reason, then you need to examine your feelings. It doesn't matter how nice his mom is or how much you love him, you cannot make him feel different than he does. Knowing that may cause you to leave him.
However, If you like his mom, love him and he has bought you a ring and is only waiting for the right moment to give it to you, then why worry and even think of moving on. If you leave, let it be because you are unhappy, not because he has missed an imaginary deadline.
I hope this assists you
2006-12-23 14:27:02 · answer #2 · answered by Lina H 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Talk to him about marriage. Ask him what he thinks about it, would he, and things like that--that is, if you're not supposed to know about the ring. If it's ok to know, you might want to hold on. He could be waiting for the special day!
2006-12-23 14:24:48 · answer #3 · answered by jdd's_kitty 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you're asking yourself if it's time to move on, it probably is. You obviously have some underlying doubts and uncertainties. You're definately NOT ready to be engaged, so whatever you do, don't accept the ring unless you're POSITIVE.
2006-12-23 14:22:59 · answer #4 · answered by wnk 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
u have to ask urself if ur life is becoming better or worse with him.unless he's doing everything in his power to move out and give u ur ring, I say step. He isn't the only fish in the sea.
2006-12-23 14:27:08 · answer #5 · answered by kita B 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hmm that depends on if you want to marry him AND his mommy! Does she change his dirty drawers too? If he's still hideing under his mom's skirt tail @ 30 he's always gong to be a lil mommies boy ...run Forest RUN!!!!
2006-12-23 14:27:11 · answer #6 · answered by MC 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
BAIL OUT NOW!!!!! Momma's boy is not in a hurry to be out on his own.
2006-12-23 14:22:19 · answer #7 · answered by CuriousMishawaka 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋