2006-12-23 06:19:14 · 19 answers · asked by kevin d 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Kevin, i am no expert, but as a female i think sometimes we think falling out of love is because that passion and fire (like in the beginning of a relationship, gets comfortable, and then boring. But.. it also may be because the person you fell in love with changed, like go in to bad habits, a bad crowd. Or your own priorities and expectations have changed and sometimes we just can't help that. Hope this helps
take care
2006-12-23 06:25:20 · answer #1 · answered by Just curious 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think it might be because some people don't know what true love is. Then again, some people are just in love with love, and fall in and out of love all the time. When you figure it out, let me know !!
2006-12-23 06:26:15 · answer #2 · answered by ♥ Zoey ♥ 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Lots of reasons. People outgrow each other sometimes. Other times the "disagreements" cause resentments & they can't be worked thru. Sometimes people "let themselves go" and turn their mates off whereas before they turned them on because they kept themselves up all the time. Sometimes people become "complacent", the excitement is gone and the relationship gets boring. Sometimes people go after their dreams/ambitions and the relationship takes a "backseat". Sometimes other people (family, friends, THE DOG (lol), etc.) are in the middle of another person's relationship and that causes problems too. There's lots of reasons.
2006-12-23 06:24:17 · answer #3 · answered by Lala 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think a lot of it has to do with the person not being able to forgive certain wrongs the other person may have done. Love is normally something that SHOULD be unconditional (i.e. if you aren't together, you still love this person regardless). However, falliing out of love can only occur when the person who loves you is unwilling to change or overlook certain faults. It is selfish. I "fell" out of love with someone due to my lack of forgiveness.
2006-12-23 06:27:41 · answer #4 · answered by Talkstress 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
People are always changing. So to hold on to the same feelings you have for someone after a long period of time is tough. It's no one's fault really. You change. They change. That's just life.
2006-12-23 06:23:10 · answer #5 · answered by ? 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Too high expections, dishonesty, breached trust etc..
There are so many reasons why the love can turn sour. Sometimes, it's not even love to begin with- it's lust, infatuation , or just plain neediness.
2006-12-23 06:29:27 · answer #6 · answered by g_liwk 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
What, do you think people HAVE to be in love? As in, there is no excuse for ending a relationship? Puh-leeze. It's very easy for people to get bored or disillusioned by their partners. It happens every day.
2006-12-23 06:26:19 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Don't birds fall out of trees before they are able to fly, They either learn to walk or fly---When they fly, they never fall again, eh?.
It's called the learning process.
2006-12-23 06:24:11 · answer #8 · answered by mypalnow2 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
some people get together because of lust... sexual attraction.. and after time that attraction dies out and fades... they believe it is love and forever, not knowing that they were attracted to each other for all the wrong reasons to begin with.. and after time that so called ''love'' dies out... and then others think they are in love out of need at that point in time...and that to fades... many people think they are in love, but that love is for all the wrong reasons...
2006-12-23 06:44:04 · answer #9 · answered by hamesha133 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I feel that love is so over-rated,we watch way too many movies.After the infatuation and the lust comes the caring.Most people don't care to stick around for that.It's sad but true,think about it.
2006-12-23 06:32:38 · answer #10 · answered by Ms Lety 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋