we have 3 kids together,she cheated on once,couple yrs ago,i talked to a girl i work with on the net for a couple of months,i ended this i thought this was wrong,nothing happened between me and this girl,my girlfriend find out i was talking to this girl months later after it ended,she gave me a rough time over this,almost ended our relationship,but the other day i was shopping with my girlfriend and found out she was messing around with a female(supposely just kissed) this happened about 1 yr ago but just found out,she says she was just curious,y curious now after 7 yrs in a relationship and not long time ago,how should i handle this,am i overreacting,or is this something i should be concerned about?
2006-12-23 05:46:19 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
break up...
2006-12-23 06:13:59 · answer #1 · answered by ~♥Jade♥~ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's call the 7 year itch. It happens because things are routine and commonplace. but it can happen anytime.
You need to add some excitement and suprise in your relationship - RIGHT away. If you've got your holiday stuff squared away, try to dump the kids on their grandparents, and go out for a pre-christmas date!
More practically, help out a bit more , get some "you and her" time together, make time for "dates" or time when there isn't any stress or kids around.
If you want to ask her about her curiousity after you've primed the pump a little bit, you should be in a better position to not worry about these things.
Also, when you're in the bedroom, spice things up a bit, is it all about 'you' or are you up to getting a copy of the Kama Sutra or something and going to school with your girlfriend.
And lastly there's the whole C word. Maybe she's feeling she wants out because there's a lack of committment - just throwing it out there.
2006-12-23 14:16:14 · answer #2 · answered by Mark T 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So get them both in bed with you.....
What's the problem???? Girl on Girl stuff is HOT!!!!
2006-12-23 14:24:54 · answer #3 · answered by CuriousMishawaka 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well what's done is done you can't change anything now.
if you love each other continue with your relationship!
good luck
2006-12-23 14:14:03 · answer #4 · answered by sea_star 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So Your complaining?
2006-12-23 14:14:00 · answer #5 · answered by Latino_Lifestyle 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋