My mother in-law is a bully and has a way of insulting you every time she talks.Last year at x-mas my husabnd wasnt with us when we went to see her and she called me names and threw our presents out the door when we left. I havent spoke to her since and my husband hasnt said anyting about going to her house.Should we just stay away? She acts like we dont even exsisit anymore.
2006-12-23 05:18:08 · 16 answers · asked by WITCHY WOMAN 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
She had thyroid cancer and when i started working in the same place she works she turned on me...she is nasty to our kids too...
2006-12-23 06:16:58 · update #1
if ur mother in law hates you , the childrens mother, she probley hates the kids too.
2006-12-23 05:22:53 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You ever heard the saying "Feed them with a Long Handled Spoon" ?
It means you have to love some people from a distance. Look, send her some presents, call her wishing her the best, and enjoy your holiday. Dont think about it, just be nice buy stay away.
2006-12-23 13:23:27 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should stay away. Don't let your children be around this woman....she may insult them and treat them terribly. Since she's your husband's mother it may be difficult to avoid her all the time, but for your mental, emotional, and perhaps physical health (not to mention that of your children) you need to stay away as much as possible. Let your husband know that you don't want to see her and explain why. I hope things work out for you!
2006-12-23 13:24:41 · answer #3 · answered by frajo 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like she has mental problems and is in need of help. Call her and see if she still knows her own name before asking to visit. She could seriously have a mental problem. I have an aunt like that. It's sad, but we can't help her.
2006-12-23 13:53:54 · answer #4 · answered by Ikkin 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
KILL her with kindness. Say nice things to her even when she is mean. She may not say anything to you. She will have to break eventually. Continue to take them around the grandmother. The children will figure it out eventually. That way it won't be on you.
2006-12-23 13:22:34 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't go. ur kids probably notice that shes an awful woman already. kids have a way of knowing. Don't take them there if thats how everyone will be treated. She obviously doesn't want you to come either.
2006-12-23 13:29:34 · answer #6 · answered by QueenofLeon 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just stay away unless she approaches you about seeing her grandchildren. Sounds like she is unstable. I hope your children didn't hear her call you names.
Why did she throw out the gifts? What made her mad?
2006-12-23 13:29:07 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is very wrong to call her mean grandma in front of your kids, you should let them make the desion if they want to be around her or not. Good luck in all you do!
2006-12-23 13:21:54 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think Christmas isn't the best time to try to mend things right now. You should wait until after Christmas and then try to talk to her and try to figure what the hell crawled up her butt.
2006-12-23 13:23:51 · answer #9 · answered by elprez14 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A trucker who has been out on the road for three weeks stops into a brothel outside Vegas.
He walks straight up to the Madam, drops down $500 and says, "I want your ugliest woman and a bologna sandwich!!"
The Madam is astonished. "But sir, for that kind of money you could have one of my finest ladies and a three-course meal."
The trucker replies, "Listen sweetheart, I ain't horny, I'm homesick."
2006-12-23 13:20:10 · answer #10 · answered by Deli Ozy 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋