How to ask her out?

Question

I like this girl and I've never said more than 2 words to her. I want to go out with her and I'm not sure how to ask considering I don't know her. I'm 14 in 9th grade. PLEASE help

Answer 1

im a girl and im around your age if a guy never talked to me but i found out he liked me, i would want him to start talkin to me first so we could become friends.... i don't want to start dating a guy that has never talked to me much it would be awkward.... so i would just talk to her and get to know her better, that way you get a test of her personality and make sure you like her for good reasons and also this really will improve the chances of her saying yes! and act normal ALWAYS act normal!

Answer 2

Well the best way to find out is to talk 2 her rather than have regrets about what whould have happened if u never would of asked her and talked to her. If u talk 2 her then at least u know u tried.

Answer 3

Just do it, and be yourself about it. Be confident, and ease into the question seemlessly after starting out with small talk.

Don't ask her something like, "Wanna go out with me?" Think of something you want to do with her in advance, and start with something small and innocent, like lunch in the park.

EDIT: Yeah, you might want to get to know her a little more before you drop the question, say, a week or two of talking to her between classes. Don't wait too long, though. Also, don't listen to the morons who are telling you to ask her out in a note.

Answer 4

Be nice to her. Get to know her. If you just ask her out before she knows who you really are, she might get a little freaked out. Odds are, she'll try a relationship with you just for the heck of it. Just remember that things don't always work out for the best, and life goes on if she doesn't like you back.
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Answer 5

1st of all, you need to talk to her and get to know her more. Then once you both know each other, write a note to her and ask her out. But always be ready for plan B if she says no. Don't rush things and be real. R E L A X

Answer 6

umm listen first of all if you never said to words to her than it would be really creepy if ur first words would be would you go out with me, so get to know her, let her get to know you, and dont try to hard becuase girls eat off that stuff, so be calm and cool and just talk to her and flirt with her then maybe you can consider asking her out on a date.

Answer 7

you could.. send her some flowers.. and on the card ask her out on a date.. and if you do not have the money for them to be delivered from a company since you are 14 then you can hand pick them (that would also make them more personal) and then you can make the card your self also and then give it all to her.. that would be a cute way to do it..

Answer 8

well 1st be sure you doesn't have bad breath. then go to her while no one is around and say how you doing to day just for a little conversation then say would you like to go out sometime. i said to ask her by yourself to save the embarrasement.

Answer 9

you should get to know her better and then ask her out because there are somethings that u might not know looks isn't the only thing in a person u need to know the person

Answer 10

Well trust me I know its hard when u like someone and u want them so bad U should just try talking to her more and she may come to realize she likes u just how u like her and it may all work out just how u want it too. Hope it works out