In reguards to all who answered my question. My fiance is not a scum bag he is very caring towards my first daughter and me. he was young when his ex got pregnant and he told her he didnt want that to abord it and I think she kept it to hold onto him. She is still to this day trying to be with him reguardless how he treats her kid. this is frustrating... And he did use a condom they arent 100 percent especially when they break. Im tired of people looking down on him for some stupid little female trying to have a kid to have something to hold onto him by.
2006-12-23 05:10:05 · 6 answers · asked by Aubs 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Other - Pregnancy & Parenting
Ok-
I just read the question that you are referring to and I have to say:
YES, HE IS A SCUM BAG!
So what if he didn't want a kid- then he should have never had sex! He shouldn't expect her to have an abortion just to appease him. He should have kept his dick in his pants. And to be honest, You sound like a loser too for supporting and defending him!
For the record, the word is 'abort' not abord.....
2006-12-23 07:22:20 · answer #1 · answered by Alison 5 · 2⤊ 1⤋
It's really not any of our places to pass and judgment. Maybe he's wrong or maybe he's not. The important thing is that the child should be taken care of no matter how much of a whoohaa the mother is. Maybe your man should take custody of the kid. The child was created for a reason. Maybe his kid will sae yours some day. You never know what anyones purpose is in life. She chose not to abort the child, it was her choice not his. He needs to accept responsability for his blood relative and not act like a baby about it. Ignore that woman, but love the child. Weather he realizes it or not it's apart of him FOREVER!
2006-12-23 12:02:52 · answer #2 · answered by Camerons Mama07 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have no history on your prior question but I live with the same B.S. with my husband. A woman who is 10 years his senior got pregnant after she said she was on the pill. It was during his wild days I guess and they were using drugs together. Now he has 12 year old son. He pays $600 a month for child support. The woman has been on state aid since she had medicaid for the birth. I feel for you. I do not think your fiance is scum. I am sorry that people who have no idea how other people live can pass so=uch swift judgment on them. Congrats for standing up for yourself. Happy Holidays. Too bad there aren't more of us. And it's not because I'm the wife. I would NEVER force any man to pay for or be responsible for a child they didn't want.
2006-12-23 05:32:15 · answer #3 · answered by 1973kimberly 2 · 0⤊ 3⤋
take the money which you're able to use to help his broke a.ss, injury the employ and flow out. i be attentive to you do no longer desire to depart yet think of of the concern you would be saving your self in the long-term. And as properly if he has no interest and could't pay the employ and you're already off of the employ, he won't be in the home lots longer the two. so which you're able to have the skill to flee and entirely f*ck him over ...
2016-10-28 05:43:47 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes he is. Its not the kids fault its mom is using her to get to him, and its not the kids fault he wont go back to her. It is HIS fault. You said he doesnt love her, or want anything to do with her, KIDS ARE INNOCENT.
So yeah, he is a dad and he ignores his own child, so he is definitley a scum bag.
2006-12-23 05:23:41 · answer #5 · answered by sweetie_baby 6 · 3⤊ 1⤋
He didn't want a kid and got one; happens all the time. I was young too but I didn't leave my child and neither did her father. Stop making excuses for this loser.
2006-12-23 05:13:56 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋