When you are fighting with someone do you ever wonder if its you or the person`s that you`re fighting with that has the problem?
2006-12-23 05:03:33 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
YES! Fighting is so trivial, and it seems like, when you really think about it, it's either you or the person with whom you're fighting who has some seriously whacked-out perceptions of the world.
2006-12-23 05:07:52 · answer #1 · answered by emmy1024 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on what you are fighting about.
But fighting about it really gets down to both of you thinking it the other person who has the problem.
Can't we all just get along??
2006-12-23 05:07:42 · answer #2 · answered by twest_dgo 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes when I am not really convinced of my side or when it goes on for so long that I just get bored of fighting. Then I will start to wonder if maybe I am just wrong about it. (or maybe I just want it to end)
2006-12-23 05:06:06 · answer #3 · answered by artimis 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like a misunderstanding. Both of you probably think it's the other's problem. You should sort it out together to make sure you both understand what's really going on.
2006-12-23 06:02:14 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are way ahead of the game. People live their whole lives and are never able to grasp that concept. Being self aware by examining your feelings and what they are stemming from makes other peoples problems just that ...Other peoples problems, not yours.
2006-12-23 05:23:37 · answer #5 · answered by DebeGrace 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Certainly. But usually not until cooler heads have prevailed then look back on situation and question rationality of argument.
2006-12-23 05:06:59 · answer #6 · answered by crazylegs 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think who ever started it has the problem
2006-12-23 05:10:43 · answer #7 · answered by mikayla c 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YOU will have CONFLICT all your LIFE!
Only YOU can choose what is WORTH fighting OVER!
OR you can just COMPRISE you Life AWAY and give in and become JELL-O!
Thanks, RR
2006-12-23 05:08:59 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
it's ALWAYS that the other persons has the problem. they don't see things MY way!
2006-12-23 05:10:40 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋