I posted a question some time ago 4 advice where my boyfriend & I had a nasty argument & said things to hurt each other. I hit "below the belt" & made insulting comments about his mom & son. This was 3-4 weeks ago. Things have been tense with us since. He hasn't been calling me but I sent xmas gifts to him anyway & I sent his Mom flowers. I requested "same day" delivery (which would be yesterday) but I didn't get confirmation until TODAY that she got the flowers yesterday @ 4pm. Now I'm wondering why neither of them called to say Thank You? I'm also wondering if his Mom knows about the argument we had where I said bad things about her & maybe that's why I didn't get a THANK YOU for flowers I sent. I asked by boyfriend back then if he told his Mom about the argument, he told me "No", that he doesn't discuss his personal biz with his Mom. I'm wondering if he lied & told her what happened & that's why I haven't heard a Thank you. I want to CALL HER & ask but something's telling me not to.
2006-12-23 04:58:02 · 14 answers · asked by Lala 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Don't call - pretty sure she knows about the remarks you made in the "heat of the moment". Just let it be.
2006-12-23 05:00:46 · answer #1 · answered by NAN G 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't call right away, your probably right that he did tell his mother when people are angry they say things that they shouldn't and because you hit below the belt the chances are he would have said something to her. Wait a little bit longer and if you don't get the thank you call from his mother then you know for sure he told her. Call her in a couple of days and ask her if she got her gifts. Then you'll get your answers then. Good luck and next time think before you speak ok . Happy holidays
2006-12-23 05:07:40 · answer #2 · answered by Ms.Deb 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't call. that would not be appropriate. Boy friend, every body has disagreements. Learn first to control the tongue when angry, then
at the right time, go for a soda and/or coffee the two of you and talk about it. Talk it out and apologoze if necessary and you were in the wrong. When some day you marry, you can't just sling insults, talk about it civil.
2006-12-23 05:04:39 · answer #3 · answered by dblebara1953 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Mabey he is lieing he might of told her!! Was u and her ok before the argument or did yall tlk it all depends.Call her and tlk to her but dont ask her why she didnt say thank you>Ask her if she liked the flowers then it might get on the subject just follow ur instinct i hope it works out!!!!>!>!>!>!
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2006-12-23 05:06:40 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
i think of you could desire to take hiom out of the middle of the equation and sit down down and characteristic a communique together with her one on one. tell her how lots you relish all the help she's been providing you with and which you're so grateful that she needs to be so in contact on your wedding ceremony arrangements, yet that she needs to comprehend which you have dreamed approximately this wedding ceremony for as long as you could bear in mind and additionally you have some ideas on your head which you quite need to bypass with. tell her which you will relish contained sooner or later if in the previous she made any judgements she could look for recommendation from you with the aid of fact it rather injury you that she went at the back of your lower back and made a determination devoid of you. rigidity to her how excited you're which you and she or he would have the capacity to be relatives and which you do no longer opt to initiate on the incorrect foot. you have the prefer to easily be particular you have a sturdy relationship together with her and which you have the prefer to ascertain that the the two certainly one of you're speaking and which you have the prefer to easily be particular you the two relish this wedding ceremony, yet you apart from would want her to admire that it is your wedding ceremony and that she needs to ascertain that your'e happy together with her judgements. purely be superb and nonconfrontational and communicate together with her one on one extremely of dealing with your fiance.
2016-12-18 18:12:07 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would keep quiet, back away and stay out of thie situation. Let them make the next move towards thank you.
I nothing happens, then it is pretty clear how the other side feels here
2006-12-23 05:02:22 · answer #6 · answered by duster 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
may take some time - - u can always call and ask "did u get the flowers?" but, don't ask why there was no thank you.
unfortuately some people are just like that.
u made a nice effort.
2006-12-23 05:04:16 · answer #7 · answered by tirebiter 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Don't call! This could make things worse if he did tell her. You know that you did the right thing. So don't let it bother you if she doesn't thank you.
2006-12-23 05:28:24 · answer #8 · answered by Gulf Coast Pinky 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
as much as you want to find out , do not call her, give her sometime.. if she calls, then you'll feel a lot better. But if she doesn't call, then you know how she feels toward you( might be forgetful too)
2006-12-23 05:06:30 · answer #9 · answered by tele t 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Don't call. If she wants to be a jerk, let her. But don't make things worse.
2006-12-23 05:02:13 · answer #10 · answered by jonny Rocket 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋