there is this guy and he really likes me.. but i dont like him like that. He is telling me how he loves me... how do i tell him 2 back off?
2006-12-23 04:48:11 · 10 answers · asked by kc 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i am going through this problem right now and it is not easy! well first, you have to tell him that you are just not interested in him right now. after that tell him that he can find someone else that he will prolly like more than you. no offense to you! but tell him that you just dont feel the same way about him as he does about you and maybe yall two will get together someday but right now yall just need to be friends. but be sure to tell him all this in a sweet way. good luck!
2006-12-23 04:54:27 · answer #1 · answered by cheerleader for life 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok you can do 2 things:
1) tell him that you are goin out atm with another guy and u dont really want to break up.
2) just be honest but in a kind way. tell him that he's nice and all, but u just see him as a friend...
2006-12-23 12:58:00 · answer #2 · answered by Cutie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly, in situations like this... "You cannot just beat around the bush". If you want nothing to do with the person, them you tell them straight up how you feel. Sometimes you gotta be mean, so you can get your point across. And don't feel sorry for him either.
2006-12-23 12:50:44 · answer #3 · answered by CUTIE 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you been leading him on for it to get to this point? You need to nicely tell him that you care for him but you don't feel the same way that he does.
2006-12-23 12:55:09 · answer #4 · answered by 2007 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well you have the right to decide on whom to move with so it will be better you tell him to back off than to delay his time.the best thing to do is to call him and tell him politely how you feel about him.
2006-12-23 12:56:56 · answer #5 · answered by boateng k 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him the truth
2006-12-23 12:58:31 · answer #6 · answered by Confused0986 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell him all you have to offer is friendship and if that isn't enough then it's time for him to move on.
2006-12-23 12:53:03 · answer #7 · answered by oldokie1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him he is cool but not your type and ask to be friends
2006-12-23 12:52:19 · answer #8 · answered by Cynthia C 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him the truth , whatever is in your heart...
2006-12-23 12:53:43 · answer #9 · answered by @rrsu 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him you just want to be friends!!
2006-12-23 12:51:37 · answer #10 · answered by cheerleader girl 4 eva and eva!! 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋