how did it all end?
2006-12-23 04:42:52 · 23 answers · asked by kacey 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Oh this brings back to my past. I was 14 years old and I was going over to my friend megans house and I see this guy there...his name was Elliott. He was a friend of Megan's brother. I fell in like with him the moment I set my eye upond him. I wanted him to be mine. We became pretty good friends and he would come over to my house and crap. When I was 15 after knowing this guy for 6 months I wanted my friend to know this guy. She bad mouth him after she met him saying he was too tall and crap. I didnt care I would have done anything for him, I would have given my whole heart and soul to him. I would have rather die then see him sad for a moment. He knew I liked him, but he never really adressed it. Then one day I had to goto walgreen to get some stuff to work on my finals...and I see him and my so called friend...come to find out they had been dating behind my back. My heart was broken. I went home and cried and cried until it hurt to cry some more and then I cried even more. I was inlove with him...he later on talked to me about him dating her...and I gave him a poem telling him my full heart and soul. He called me up later that night and told me it was sweet. A week later they broke up...I was happy but I didnt want to talk to either one of them again...well we didnt talk for a year...I found out that he still keeps that poem in his wallet to this day. My friend told me she found it there the other day. That is to bad, because I would have done anything for him. He messed up his chance because I truely would have made him happy. I'm 19 now
2006-12-23 05:03:10 · answer #1 · answered by The_Morbid_One 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unfortunately this a feeling that all of us go through at some point in our lives, sometimes more than once. It sucks but you do somehow get over it each time. The old cliche of time heals all is so true. Don't let these emotions drag you down, these relationships are just stepping stones to something better. You learn so much about yourself each time and yes you do grow a bit stronger.
2006-12-23 05:59:00 · answer #2 · answered by gypsyeyes 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's the most awful feeling in the world, well, one of them. I liked a guy for three years and made it quite clear to him- big mistake! He was a complete and utter cow about it but I still managed to convince myself that he was secretly in love with me. When he got together with another girl, I finally realised that he really did mean all the nasty things he'd said to me. I'm pretty much over him now but seeing them together still winds me up. I keep telling myself that it could have been me with him if I'd done things differently, but who am I kidding? Great! Now I sound really bitter!! I'm not! :-)
2006-12-23 04:48:49 · answer #3 · answered by Abby K 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yea....it kinda sucks. But i also had the experience of wanting someone i can have, which is much better afterall :) I advise it to you! seriously. Usually its the "cannot have" part that makes it so big in our mind. Mine ended cuz i decided to end it (thankfully) and im much happier now with another relationship. You surely deserve that...Good luck!
2006-12-23 04:52:13 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. I was in high school. The guy I liked was a friend of mine, and I developed a MAJOR crush on him. He finally noticed how my feelings for him had changed and he said he thought of me as a little sister. It took me three years to get over him! But, your heart will heal. I have been married to a wonderful man for 9 years now and have three boys. Good luck!
2006-12-23 04:51:32 · answer #5 · answered by stormchildforever 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For 42 years plus I've felt like that recently we met again and have become best friends but I still ache for her and I still love her and turn to jelly when I see or hear her. there is only two ways to counter this death or be with her all the time.
2006-12-23 14:25:54 · answer #6 · answered by radion 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think everyone has at some point in their lives. There is someone i really want but he doesn't want me, which is fine, but i have to see him everyday which hurts like hell.
Hopefully the pain will subside but until then i will just have to put up with it.
2006-12-23 04:50:27 · answer #7 · answered by anastacia500 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sure have,it hurt like all he_ _ and took a year to get over it. being called a part time lover is not a god thing at all. we both moved on didn't speak for months,my feelings were stronger than his and he was not into having kids around,I have 2 at home which he knew upfront,guess he was only after sex,he didn't get it from me.
2006-12-23 04:53:12 · answer #8 · answered by davec4real_02 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
falling in love sometimes comes with a price. paying back with hurt of not being able to be with them because of reasons beyond our control. read love and relationships to better help you on this site
2006-12-23 04:47:46 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It ended as vanity does. Pusue wisdom not such things.
Merry Chrismas!
2006-12-23 04:59:58 · answer #10 · answered by good day 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋