2006-12-23 04:24:04 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
im sorry to say this but there really isnt anything a girl can do when the person u like doesnt return the same feelings. I mean everyone in there life has experienced and been thru wut u are going thru now.
Infatuation can make us do stupid things and that includes getting anxious, cant sleep, loss of apeptite all that sort of stuff but dont take it too hard on urself since it isnt ur fault he didnt return ur feelings. Try facing reality. Like King Solomon (bible tiems) one of the wisest men that ever lived, once fell desperatly in love with a girl that didnt return his feelings. He even wrote the best poetry telling her that she was beautiful and pure. Nevertheless he eventually quit his attempts to win her over. So try and do something that can take ur mind off of that person. Like doing some outdoor activities hang out with a friend. If you choose to face reality rather than listenin to ur heart(since ur heart can be very decietful) u will be walking down the path to wisdom. Good luck i hope i helped
2006-12-23 04:32:10 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You see there are limits....and that to some extend.
1. You like the person and he knows it...but still he does not like you.
2. You like the person and he does not know it....he is disliking you.
3. You like the person and he knows it....but still he does not like you and on top again and again...trying to say that he can never like you.
If you are in the situation 1, stop liking him. Dont hurt him and be normal as you would be to others.
If you are in the situation 2, keep liking him, one day will come and give you a hug to your surprise.
If you are in the situation 3, stop liking him, start hurting him.
2006-12-23 12:35:32 · answer #2 · answered by Sonu 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have been through that before. Basically they dint understand the beautiful person in the inside. So they wont ever notice it. Just keep moving. i pray that someone will come your way who appreciates the beautiful person inside of you. He is probably just stuck on either looks, attention or basically, what he can get out of someone. Stay focus on who you are. Don't let him make you feel worthless. You are priceless!!!!
2006-12-23 12:28:55 · answer #3 · answered by The Anointed One 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should respect yourself and move on. Find someone who not only likes you back, but will love you back and become your life partner. Don't waste your time on dreaming about romance that can't come true... you might miss the guy who is out there waiting for you. :-)
2006-12-23 12:26:49 · answer #4 · answered by mJc 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Admit maybe it just wasn't meant to be, don't dwell on it. I just keep smiling & hope to at least be friends if possible. I would most definately NOT throw myself at them or make a fool of myself, if you know for sure they aren't interested there is a reason even if you can't see it. Respect this & go on there are alot more fish in the sea.
2006-12-23 12:31:28 · answer #5 · answered by Dawn 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if you relaly really like them. Find out what type of girls they are into find out what type of things make them melt. And then get really confident and be that type that he really likes and be the thing that makes him melt and then as things are getting good you can start being yourself because then they will be head over hills for you and love everything you do.....works every time for me..
2006-12-23 12:28:40 · answer #6 · answered by Bloody_Mary 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get over it. There's so many people out there, you're bound to find someone soon who's into you & vice versa.
2006-12-23 12:39:14 · answer #7 · answered by Mishee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try to move on.or bu em a lot of junk to buy affection. sometimes it works haha.
2006-12-23 12:27:19 · answer #8 · answered by Emmy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it depends
if you like them and they don't mind then its commensalism
so don't worry about it
if one is feeding off the other, then its parasitism and will kill the host eventually
2006-12-23 12:27:10 · answer #9 · answered by kurticus1024 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on there is one for everyone that what i think
2006-12-23 12:31:32 · answer #10 · answered by mms 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋