Okay theres this guy that i've liked ever since the beginng of the month of August when school started.At first I thought that he didn't like me but then almost everyday he would come up and hug me. Then his cousin who is my best friend found out I liked him. Somehow he must of found out I liked him from me being to flirtaious my friend didn't tell though. Then she told me when she talked to him on the phone she asked him wat he wanted for Christmas and he said me and he said he reall liked my personality. But then about 2 weeks later I come to find out he is going with this girl who he likes and I thought he liked me but I guess I was wrong. Its gonna be really hard for me to go back to school in January and see those 2 together.It really hurt my feelings when I found out that he went with the other girl and all this time I thought he liked me. I promised myself that when I go back to school that if he tries to talk to me I'll ignore him and act like I really don't wanna talk to him.
2006-12-23 04:21:54 · 15 answers · asked by Princess Jr. 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yes, good idea. find someone else to like.
2006-12-23 04:24:07 · answer #1 · answered by mstrywmn 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How about considering a friendship and being there for him. High School relationships don't last forever. I would wait to date him when you're out of the high school drama scene. Why not spend your holiday break trying to make some new guy pals. This may help to get your mind off of him. Go bowling, to the roller rink or ice rink, go to the local rec center. Just get out there and have fun. He'll come around if he was meant to be. Don't break up a good friendship. Also, if you can have a civilized conversation with him, why not ask him why he never asked you out. Just be prepared for any responses he may provide.
Hope this helps.
2006-12-23 12:25:57 · answer #2 · answered by born2bfree 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are young and you will get over. Sounds like he can be a player. Are you willing to share your man or would you rather be just friends with him? Focus on your studies and just have lots of male friends and you will get over very quickly. Mr. Right will come along and the best relationships are the ones which start with friendship only.
2006-12-23 12:29:15 · answer #3 · answered by Abby 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just forget about him and move on it is better u found out now rather than later down when it is too late,go out with friends and do fun things u will meet someone else who u loveor like and it will be good for u.........cheer up and have a merry christmas.
2006-12-23 12:30:50 · answer #4 · answered by marsha w 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't ignore him. That'll make you seem stupid and immature. Forget about him but keep being his friend. And go out with somebody else. Don't just pretend like you don't care what he does... don't care for real. It's a waste of your life to keep thinking about him.
2006-12-23 12:25:15 · answer #5 · answered by loved16 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Breathe. Relax. Realize there are millions of guys out there. It'll be rough when you go back to school, but show him you're not weak.
2006-12-23 12:25:29 · answer #6 · answered by Greg S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When u go back to school, FAKE IT!! Talk to him with a little interest, But let him know that you also have other guys to talk to.
2006-12-23 12:30:35 · answer #7 · answered by lilkismet73 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They say it takes twice the time you were with a person to get over them...wait
2006-12-23 12:23:25 · answer #8 · answered by Lauren 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
aww! you poor girl. i agree with the person before me...it may take a while. maybe you can think of all the bad things about the guy you liked. idk! its a tough situation...maybe he'll come around-you never know! <3
2006-12-23 12:25:36 · answer #9 · answered by stupidSTUPID! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell him u love him but u will get over it.he will realise he loves u too
2006-12-23 12:24:22 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋