She says harmful things and is somewhat of a psycho
2006-12-23 04:18:55 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
I would do what I could to subtly avoid her. When there were family gatherings I would go and just try to avoid letting her suck me in to a fight.
2006-12-23 04:22:01 · answer #1 · answered by Aloe-ish-us 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You shouldn't avoid her because that will make her a more powerful psyco. The next time your around her and she says something that is hurtful what you should do to shut her up once and for all is to embarrass her infront of the family about her attitude. For example: "Im sorry your having a pms moment, but I don't appreciate you taking it out on everyone else!" Something like that. The more kinder the words the better. Like they say "Kill em' with kindness!" Happy holidays
2006-12-23 04:48:04 · answer #2 · answered by Ms.Deb 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have a brother in law that I stay away from at all times possible. He's just a negative person all around and when I get near him, I instantly tense up. Life is all about him, him, him. He has no problem stepping all over people just to get what he wants out of life. He has no problems hurting and using his family for his own personal advancement. He makes me sick!
2006-12-23 04:35:47 · answer #3 · answered by emmie8750 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Shes probably jealous of your relationship with her sibling. Dont lower you standards to hers and say things back that are harmful, but dont be a doormat and let her walk all over you, or in this case, walk you outta town, you need to make it clear that you are not going to be jabbed at, if your husband is happy with you then they need to understand that you are going to be around no matter what. Tell your husband that hes the one who needs to make it clear, if you tell them something yourself then all they will say is "see this is the type of &*&& we always said she was" Hes the one who needs to understand that if you're not happy then you both will be unhappy, until he sets his sister straight.
2006-12-23 11:10:24 · answer #4 · answered by Summer 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not really, because she is also a family member. But I would stay out on matters it doesn't concern me when she's around.
2006-12-23 04:52:59 · answer #5 · answered by angel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her how you feel about her. That is probably the best thing to do at a time like this. If you don't tell her, she will never know, and will probably never change. She may act the way she does unintentionally, and if you confront her with your feelings, she may try to change so you feel more comfortable around you.
2006-12-23 04:23:22 · answer #6 · answered by pincdragon 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
well she is family now and unless they get a divorce you're going to have to deal with it
so try being more understanding maybe there is something u don't know about that is really hurting her inside?
2006-12-23 04:26:11 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would try to tell her exactly what and why it bothered me
then if she kept doing whatever it was, chewing at my leg or whatever
then I would try to avoid her
2006-12-23 04:29:14 · answer #8 · answered by kurticus1024 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋